Been seeing someone for around 4 months. When we're alone it's fine as I can put up with his quirky behaviour and have become used to what is probably quite rude social interactions (cutting me off mid sentence, ignoring me when I'm talking to him etc) but we've been out in public more often recently and I just find it all so cringey. Example we were waiting to get on a bus and a little old woman who was struggling to walk tried to grab the handles near the bus door and pull herself onto the bus only for him to almost push her off the bus and barge past her. She almost fell over, I was mortified. Another bloke in the queue went ballistic and started shouting at him to "have some fucking manners" and "if you want to push people about, push me you ignorant cunt" etc etc!!! DP was blatantly terrified and stood there fiddling with his collar mumbling about being in the queue first and the woman had tried to push in which set everyone else off laughing at him and calling him names. I was so embarrassed and just walked off in the end. He came running after me - I thought he was going to try and justify his behaviour or even apologise and all he said was "were are you going? We're going to miss the bus!" !!!!!
Other examples too such as being in a shop, him asking for advice and then literally walking off whilst the assistant is mid sentence.
I've told him I find his behaviour rude and embarrassing and all he says is "I can't help that, I have aspergers!" But he's never actually been diagnosed with it, he's just decided he is because his ex said he might have it!!
AIBU to just finish with him, aspergers or not I just can't be doing with the embarrassment.