Live rural and go into town once a week to shop.
Before shopping I meet up with my one freind for a coffee. I don't see her any other time just the odd text.
I don't go out during the week so basically just doing home stuff and doing things with Dd and Dh.
Coffee takes a maximum of half an hour and sometimes we have s look around d shops but I'm always home for about 12 or 12.30 at latest.
Me and Dh always row when I say I'm having coffee with freind on a Thursday.
He always makes a point of ringing me asking me what I'm doing or where I am knowing full well I'm in the cafe.
He basically thinks I'm wasting time and money when we have loads of other stuff to do (his words).
Iwe argued about it this morning but I still went for coffee but cut it short and feel horrible now because of him.
He is making me doubt myself and feel guilty for going for a fucking coffee when yes we have things to do but nothing so urgent.
Is it me or him who is unreasonable?