..to invite you to a good natured game of guess my weight

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...on this grey Monday?? (well - its grey and bloody miserable up here anyway!) .... not writing anything much here as don't want to influence guesses.

I'm 5ft10

V bored perma-breastfeeding, so hoping this will provide a lighthearted distraction.

OK. Sorry for being so blunt

hahaha.... sorry CivQueen, cross post, I take it down a notch. I'm getting a bit fed up of being called a liar is all.

Urn forgive me op but in that photo with the baby you have some very visible tattoos on your left arm.

Hahaha oh dear.

Can I just say your csecfuon scar looks amazing, where is it?!

Not being sarky, mine is extremely visible and ugly 2 years postpartum, never mind 8 weeks.

Did you put anything on it? I tried some of that oil stuff but it did jack shit

Jesus.... an AIBU has descended into REASON... CivQueen just received two well mannered apologies

Nah it's fine, had a glass or two of vino and my detective skills are obviously not on par with the greats!

(You look too good to be true op, I'd take that as a compliment)

adrifty86 its pretty low to be honest, but I've really lucky its pretty flat and thin, like a purple dashed line really. I used aveeno of all things, I do sometime get keloid (sp?) scarring too.... but I wouldn't have given a shit, my little man is worth any scar,

Oh definitely worth it, he's gorgeous by the way

They did a right bitch job with mine, it's all over the bloody place.

Still, as you say, worth it (must try to remember that when the angels turn into little shits and won't sleep 😂)

Some completely shitty comments on here.
Why the fuck do people try to insist on tearing others down with their petty jibes?

OP, you look amazing. You also come across well in your messages and you haven't risen to some of the crap that has been posted. That says more about you than any fab picture of you could.
Congrats on your little one. Focus on what makes you happy.

@adrifty86 .... thinking back to my boob job (nooooooooo troll hunters NOT part of gender reassignment - just a very silly whim when young!) one scar wouldn't heal.... dermatix sorted it

Sorry for me too hun. I don't think U look trans, just when somebody said someone posted a similar post a while back with similar pics and they were MTF, I thought eh>>>?? Ooooh...

Esp as the body (your body!) was a bit muscular. So I do apologise.

But I think the skin is too soft, and the tummy bit too feminine to be (previously) male.

You do look good, and yeah I agree with PP's that you're clearly just really toned/sporty etc.

CUTE Bub BTW!

Oooh thanks op I'll try some of that!

Can I just say some shitty things have been said but props to Civ for actually apologising for being a bit of a dick.

I never see that anymore

Yeah...it was a very shitty thing to do I know. I am very sorry op.

I was admiring the tattoos, went back to the op for a closer look and then apparently shat out my own brain from my mouth

@backscratcher thank you, he's made me so happy. I'm always quick to defend AIBU when people say it's too rough as I believe the majority of posters are good people and on balance I think thats the case here too.

Always people happy to try to blow out another persons candle but I like to think theyre in the minority.

Morris

How did I know it would not be a more - ahem - curvy lady posting

Head to instagram OP !

@Ravenblack don't worry about it, as I said up thread horses for courses, some like muscles, some dont, some like tall, some like short, some like hairy, some bald (I love a baldy haha!)

Thank you to all that have said nice things about my little man.... you all didnt have to but its lovely you did.

CiviQueen Fair play to you, I do it often too

You have an amazing figure. I'm very jealous.

but yes as pp said it's really quite masculine to be fair and yes I have also seen a similar thread recently from a mtf transsexual on another forum.

not troll hunting just sharing what I've seen

but regardless you look fabulous!

Most self obsessed attention seeking post u have ever read !

@Willyoujustbequiet have you RTFT? Have you seen the pic of me holding my newborn in hospital?? I'm not sure how else to prove my gender or even why I should if maybe 3 people are hellbent on a conclusion regardless.

missiondecision read the thread maybe

I am glad that posters have had the decency to apologise. I read the last two pages of the thread with this expression

But as an aside - its really very sad that people assume that all women should either have soft dimpled curves or delicate wee legs and arms to be feminine.

Today 21:40 Smellbellina

Urn forgive me op but in that photo with the baby you have some very visible tattoos on your left arm.

Hahaha oh dear.

Yes indeed!

@hmcAsWas I think so too, I think it's really good and why AIBU isnt really the shitstorm everyone thinks