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to ask DP to come home?

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fridayfeelings · 02/06/2017 07:16

I'm 38+2 in low risk pregnancy but understandably a little fed up and have been a bit tired and tearful this week. DP got invited out tonight for after work drinks by some former work friends he's not seen for a while. He went out for drinks with other friends on Wednesday too but I had plans so wasn't really a big deal.

I've asked if he can forego tonight to come home and spend time with me as other 2 DC are away with GP and he agreed that was fine but now I feel really guilty as he's tired and has left for work very grumpy - part of me thinks it might be better to just say 'don't bother' and for him to go out tonight but equally I feel like we have limited opportunity to have time together coming up.

What should I do? Knowing how hormonal I am at the moment I know if I say to go out and he does then I'm likely to be upset later on if I'm feeling rubbish again.

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Kokusai · 02/06/2017 12:14

YOu woudl think he would want to spend time with his DP. It will be about the only evening they get together without any children for aaaaaages.

fridayfeelings · 02/06/2017 12:34

I don't know Kokusai, I'm heavily pregnant with kids on half term and it's sweaty weather, I can't blame him for not jumping at the chance to spend some time together when I'm not at my best for being good company!

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