A bit of background..My sister and I really don't get along, we never have and she is getting married in July. She's been a bit crazy about the whole thing to be honest. She wouldn't let me bring a pram for my DD who is a newborn because it would spoil the look in her pictures so she expects a newborn to be held for several hours during ceremony and reception and not have a proper nap. I completely refused and said I need to bring the pram or we're not coming. If she doesn't want any babies there that's fine but don't force me to bring my child and then not expect the basic necessities that come with a newborn baby! Anyway fast forward to the more recent drama with my parents who continually get involved with our "arguments" because if ever she's annoyed or thinks I'm doing something wrong she never comes to me and goes directly to them and they then call me up to basically try and tell me what to do. So on her invitation she's asked for money...which is fine, I consider that pretty normal nowadays, however I am currently not working because of just having lo and we are living off of one income on a really tight budget and getting by on what we can afford. I know if I give her money she will complain that it's not enough and I'm not looking for another confrontational phone call from my parents so I called my mum mentioned I was going out at the weekend to buy the present...my mum was then outraged I wouldn't "do what my sister asked and give her cash". I thought that at least if I go and pick a nice photo frame it shows that I've at least made an effort instead of putting a small amount of cash with a card. AIBU? Thanks in advance ladies!