...to ask you what are your curfew times are for your teens?

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What time do your 14, 15 and 16 year olds have to be home by in the evening? Need some feedback.....

DD1 has just turned 17 and hers is midnight. 9pm on a college night.

DD2 is 13 and not allowed out after dark- but we live in a "rough" area. Exceptions are made occasionally.

Another one with no curfew as such. Each situation discussed and agreed at the time. Often 10.30/11 if she wants picked up (dd is 16- nearly 17) and no time for after parties as long As she doesn't walk home alone...
rules are meant to be broken etc and I feel an arbitrary time is meaningless and often petty.

11 at weekends unless they at something which goes on till later and 9:30 week days. Was the same for all until they turned 16!

No curfew for 15yr old, it depends on the circumstances.
She's rarely later than 10.30 on a weeknight as that's the time the last bus gets her in from her boyfriend's.
Only goes out in the evening a couple of nights a week though generally, I'm usually in bed by 9, but she comes and wakes me up so I know she's safe.

Fatalie, you said it was 2am on another thread a few days ago.

Dd never really had a curfew. She was sensible enough to not really go far on a school night anyway. Once she was 16, so long as she walked back with her friends, she could come and go as she pleased. She never abused the trust. I always knew where she was and who she was with. I suppose it's different if you're more rural. I don't drive so dd had to make her own arrangements.

(15) 11 p.m. on a weekday and then at weekends it depends, I've collected at 3 a.m. from a party but if going out to say cinema and making own way home I would say midnight/1 a.m.

No curfew but if they are out in the evening it is at a planned activity so we pick them up when the activity is over.

I don't have a teen just yet, as my oldest dd is only 11, however my thoughts on freedom are changing as she's nearing that stage.

I really don't know whether il be comfortable with then 'hanging about' I'd like to know where they are going, who with etc, before I'd be happy to let them out.
I don't think I'll be happy to let them out till 10pm if they're going from one friends house to another or hanging about at the park.

My dp and I were a little reckless as teens, we had fun but I wouldn't want our daughters doing the same.

I suppose I won't know for sure until that time comes.