Had a visit of a very close friend yesterday our children a year apart (hers older) and as soon as he got here he was snatching toys of my very quiet and timid dd, he was climbing on my windows opening them I was saying don't do that as dd will copy and it's dangerous. Then started throwing and broke one of dd toys leaving her in tears many times smacking her away from her toys and at one point kicked her in the stomach when she tried getting her toy back, all of this time mum occasionally shouted no while on her phone. I understand some kids can be sly naughty but my dd was just staring at him bewildered and looking at me.
They left not long later her ds kicking my doors all the way through the hall.
She has just text asking to come round... I have to say I'm busy.