Can't sleep, more of a WWYD

[Lolitabonita]

I was seeing a married man with two children when I was 16. It all ended badly which resulted in him returning to his wife and me being very bitter about the way he blamed me entirely afterwards.

This was 20 years ago. I commented on a friends post regarding the Soham murders and the sister of the wife has replied to my comment on there basically dragging up the past and comparing me to Ian Huntley in that I was manipulative to her sister etc, saying that now I have a husband and kids she hopes I go through what her sister did....

I've now got a family of my own and I feel sick at the thought of that being on Facebook. It was totally unprovoked and I haven't yet responded to it. I've never spoken to her sister before, this is the first communication in 20 years.

WWYD? I don't know whether to reply to it or not or just leave it?

The problem I had was that the bloke and his wife (particularly the bloke) have large families, who all lived in the same town at the time, who were all gunning for me when they found out about the affair. As time has gone by family members have moved away so It has become more bearable to go out for a drink in town with out having abuse thrown at you when they are drunk. The sister who messaged me though has never spoken to me or messaged me so it did come as a surprise to me when I saw it

@greatfuckibility - they said that she had never got over the affair, I had ruined her life and hence she felt suicidal

Chloe84 why a strange choice, it's the name of my favourite blogger?

Ok, but it's also the name of the eponymous character in the novel Lolita (story in which a middle-aged man becomes obsessed with a young girl).

Unfortunate coincidence if you weren't aware of that.

Omg, how do I change it?

I picked up on that also Chloe

how awful op can you not block her on fb and report her

A name change won't change your name on the posts you've made so far. Just ride it out I guess.