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Am I selfish

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user1494083116 · 06/05/2017 16:25

I do everything for my partner who doesn't work do anything around the house unless it's for him I run around after his daughter when she's here. I run around for his folks and work 50 hours a week. This week was my first holiday since Christmas and I was looking forward to some rest some fun and some quiet. In stead of anytime for me we've had his daughter who is off school yet again and as her mum won't have time off to look after her I'm doing it because she knows I'm on holiday this week , so I've had no rest no fun nothing for me at all. She was supposed to go home today leaving me 1 day left for me , I came home from visiting family to find out that we now have her until Sunday night without being asked. I had a romantic night and day planned which I've got to cancel and was told I was selfish for wanting 1 day to myself before I go back to my 50 hour a week job which isnt easy and is very tiring am I wrong to want 1 day for me. I feel like everyone and everything comes before me I just wanna scream what about me I am really selfish ????

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Stillonthatbloodycomputer · 06/05/2017 17:52

Op, yep it's hard to leave, I've been there and done it, but you only get one shot at this life, please please go and live it, I am now a totally different person, of course there will be times when you feel guilty and have I done the right thing, but just look at your posts they're telling you something aren't they . Good luck

kissmethere · 06/05/2017 18:28

Leave and take the cat with you.

Ellie56 · 06/05/2017 23:30

Yes leave and take the cat with you. You are worth so much more than this.

MidniteScribbler · 06/05/2017 23:39

And please take every precaution you can not to get pregnant to this twerp and be tied to him for the rest of your life.

Catherinebee85 · 06/05/2017 23:45

What does he bring to the relationship?

You've not said one good thing about him.

He's not your responsibility! Get out and be happy. He sounds like a total waste of space!

Sugarpiehoneyeye · 07/05/2017 07:59

How are you today Lovely, any positive thoughts ? 💐

Creampastry · 07/05/2017 08:15

Get out of that relationship .,,, you are wasting your life.

Inertia · 07/05/2017 08:26

You are being totally taken advantage of- there's a whole world of opportunity out there.

MsGameandWatch · 07/05/2017 08:28

I'm judging you right now for choosing to live this way to be honest.

Elvisrocks · 07/05/2017 08:38

Oh good god, kick him to the kerb now!! Why on earth are you putting up with this? The initial wrench might be hard but short term pain = serious long term gain. Please, please get on and do it.

NameNotANumber · 07/05/2017 08:42

100% unanimous. OP get rid, a much happier future awaits.

Why would you stay? He doesn't respect you. He doesn't support you. He doesn't help you.

You would have more money and time on your own.

What is stopping you?

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