I don't agree that's always the case deleteordecay. If you take a yr 6 residential trip for example, the kids go to the next county and spend 3 days canoeing, climbing etc. Just them. I don't think it's any more educational because school take them, compared to if we took them, and it's all stuff we would do on a holiday together. You can get family holidays doing the same things as the kids do on these sorts of residentials. It is a different experience with school, but not any more educational imo. The kids who stay behind, last year they did baking, friendship bracelets etc. Nothing I couldn't do at home, but I wouldn't be allowed to do it at home, even though they wouldn't be missing anything educationally and it would have no effect at all on the teachers if I took them out for those few days.
My dc went to see a play recently. Fab experience for them, but I guarantee if they hadn't gone with school, I wouldn't have been allowed to take them, even though it would obviously be the same excellent experience.
I don't think the 'its not educational if it's a family thing so that's why school are allowed and parents aren't' argument is always a valid one. Sometimes its true, but not always. The 'it disrupts learning too much' argument however - that's probably always valid.
Peanutphoenix, why on earth would I take my dc on a cheap holiday to top up my tan when I could send them on residential and top up in peace
because obviously that's the only reason anyone ever goes on holiday 