Taken aback by what he's just said to me. He has recovered from some serious psychiatric issues - good on him - but is now training to be a therapist. He seems to drink a hell of a lot, and is quite clearly half cut right now.
When he moved in we had the normal banal chat of how we ended up in London, I said I moved to be with my ex. No, we're not together nowadays, but I built a life here and loved it so I stayed. He has just moved back from an Asian country. We both have accents so it's obvious neither of us are from here.
Anyway today when I was making tea and making general conversation I asked him if he enjoyed his therapist training. He started banging on about how I'm stuck in a rut in London after my ex broke up with me. I was taken aback and explained London is home, I love it. He said its not my home as my parents don't live here. Then another housemate came in and subject changed.
I'm pissed off at this on a number of levels. He has shown a lack of boundaries, made assumptions and been far too over-familiar. I'm already wary of him because he gets very drunk at night.
What can I do or say to be assertive? I was so taken aback when he said it! I didn't even realise he was talking about me, when he was talking about being "stuck after your boyfriend broke up with you" - for one, I broke up with him!