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Taking cakes to job interview

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onesupplied · 29/04/2017 12:18

My lovely friend had a job interview last week. Very large organisation, likely to be a strongly structured interview. I asked her how it went and she said well, and that she had baked a cake and taken it along to the interview.

AIBU to think that this has more likely hindered rather than helped her application?

Is this ever a done thing?

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UppityHumpty · 29/04/2017 12:47

@Gwenhwyfar - He used to buy her really expensive stuff to say thanks, and give her pay increases. PAs in IB are treated really, really well.

scaryclown · 29/04/2017 12:47

'in your role you might find people try to influence you with gifts or invitations. How would you handle that?

CaoNiMartacus · 29/04/2017 12:47

I am cringing.

I've always found the whole "baking" thing incredibly tiresome. The self-esteem some people seem to glean from it.

NoSquirrels · 29/04/2017 12:48

Yes Uppity, we x-posted before saying opposing things. But I think fair to say you're in the minority as an interviewer- let's hope OP's friend got someone like you!

Cake
TittyGolightly · 29/04/2017 12:48

I love baking and do regularly for colleagues and friends, but not for interviews!

BaffledMummy · 29/04/2017 12:50

Aww bless her...I hope she gets the job!

alteredimages · 29/04/2017 12:50

Reminds me of Caitlin Moran's story about winning a competition to write for the Observer and spending the night before making a lemon sponge.

UppityHumpty · 29/04/2017 12:50

Haha - hopefully.

Crunchymum · 29/04/2017 12:51

uppity "thinking beyond the box???"

Grin
Beeziekn33ze · 29/04/2017 12:52

Seems gauche and a little creepy.

AnnPerkins · 29/04/2017 12:53

It's a dangerous thing to do for such a traditionally female role. By bringing domesticated behaviour into a professional situation she might as well have written "I'll happily make everyone's tea and keep the staff kitchen clean when no other bugger will even wash up a teaspoon and do any other shitwork everyone else thinks is beneath them" on her forehead.

I realise I sound slightly bitter after 30 years of admin/secretarial work.

PotatoesPastaAndBread · 29/04/2017 12:54

I was on a staff panel (so additional to the formal interview panel) this week. Interviewing for a senior role. One (the only woman) candidate brought the staff panel homemade cake. I thought it was awful (the gesture, not the cake!) The rest of the staff panel thought it was great - she would be our boss and they thought it was lovely.

MagnumAddict · 29/04/2017 12:56

I'm so torn on this! My immediate thought was oh no cringe! But thinking about it more is making me think bless....

I think it will down to her personality on whether she can pull off cake gate!

WhatALoadOfOldBollocks · 29/04/2017 12:57

Brought a cake to an interview?! Hahahahaha...snort...hahahahaha! Grin How strange.

GahBuggerit · 29/04/2017 12:57

Oh no she didn't Shock

Erm......yes........that's one interview that would be wrapped up very quickly if i was the hiring manager

WorraLiberty · 29/04/2017 12:57

Oh god that's arse-clenchingly cringeworthy!

Could you ever imagine a man turning up for an interview with a cake he'd baked at home?

AgentProvocateur · 29/04/2017 12:58

How would you even bring it up
In the interview? Would you say at then, "btw, I baked you a cake"? Or would you take it out at the start, cut it up and offer a slice to everyone on the panel? Cringe.

onesupplied · 29/04/2017 12:58

Even if she does get the role, I'm worried that the impression she's set for herself is less than ideal... it's the 'typically female'/sweet/homemaker type example that she might be setting and in the job I imagine she'd find that hard to shift.

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yorkshapudding · 29/04/2017 12:58

Noooooo! How embarrassing Shock

Depends - in some roles putting cake in the staff room would be appreciated! I'm thinking along the lines of nurses and teachers

I was a Nurse in a former life and now work in a School. At every place I have ever worked this would be considered completely inappropriate. I can confirm that both Nurses and Teachers are usually very grateful to see that a homemade cake has appeared in the staffroom but not one that has brought in by an interview candidate! Everyone would be mortified for her.

selsigfach · 29/04/2017 12:59

I've not done this but I have brought in home-made cake on my first day in two jobs - I thought it was a nice gesture to the rest of the team. Won't do it again, MN jury!

CurlyMango · 29/04/2017 13:02

I was asked to bring something I had cooked, but it was that kind of interview. I did get the job. Never ever would I do it randomly. Nor do I take an food I cook it to work,I bake a lot and am good but this is just not the professional image to present. It's 'mummy', steer well clear and maintain boundaries.

PhyllisNights · 29/04/2017 13:03

Any organisation following a proper recruitment process would base it solely on the interview/assessment and who scored highest.

As nice as the thought may have been, bringing a cake along to the interview is unprofessional.

yorkshapudding · 29/04/2017 13:04

selsigfach I don't see anything wrong whatsoever in bringing a cake in on your first day. In fact I think it's a nice gesture. Bringing a cake to an interview is completely different.

Hoppinggreen · 29/04/2017 13:04

" she interviewed incredibly well and has all the experience we need but I do feel her Victoria sponge was a little dry and I prefer fresh cream to buttercream"

WhatALoadOfOldBollocks · 29/04/2017 13:04

I've not done this but I have brought in home-made cake on my first day in two jobs - I thought it was a nice gesture to the rest of the team. Won't do it again, MN jury!

I think that's a bit different. It's a bit of a team bonding thing isn't it. But taking a cake to an interview is very odd IMO.

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