So so fed up. I am only 30 and but have been forced into a life of celibacy.
DH is 40 and has not had an erection for almost 2 years. He cannot get an erection when he masturbates.
I am so sick of talking about it with him. I used to enjoy sex and am sick of the nagging shrew I have become, literally begging DH to seek medical advice.
Sick of feeling guilty and ashamed that I want to have sex with my own husband.
I have researched it online and there could be medical reasons (he has low chloesteral for eg) and I have told him again and again to see the doctor.
I feel like he doesnt take it seriously. It has now become normal that he is asexual and we are friends rather than lovers. Fine if he was a friend but he is my husband.
I just dont know what to do. Should I never have sex for the rest of my life because DH cant?