DD is 8 years old and staying at a residential activity camp for 2 nights. Got a call today to tell me about an 'incident' where my daughter and another girl from her room(she is sharing with 3 other girls), had a shower together 'naked'. They had finished an activity where they had got wet and cold and dd offered the other girl to jump in the shower with her rather than wait for her to finish. They had not been told off but told that they were not allowed to have showers together. AIBU to be angry at this being treated as an 'incident'?