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To expect my rich brother to buy me a decent birthday gift?

57 replies

Sheila · 08/03/2007 10:03

OK - he may not be rich exactly, but he earns a lot of money, his wife also works full time, they live in a massive house, have an au-pair, annual skiing hols etc etc, and what I got from him today on my birthday was a cheap as chips bracelet that probably cost no more than £10.00 (if that) and is already starting to make my wrist go green.

In fact the card is in his wife's handwriting so I suspect that she was roped in to buy the gift and send it, and she's not my biggest fan.

I know I shouldn't care, but I do. I don't have a DP/DH so family presents are more important, and I feel so let down and sad about my life.

OP posts:
Anna8888 · 08/03/2007 13:54

oh glad to see you were a submissive wife once Xenia...

Judy1234 · 08/03/2007 14:39

...very...

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Katelyn88 · 10/11/2022 22:24

Oh wow OP, you really do sound like hardwork! What makes you entitled to their money if they are rich? They obviously spend their money, but choose not to spend on you. Is there a reason? There will be!

CatchYouOnTheFlippetyFlop · 10/11/2022 22:31

dh and I are okayish money wise. My sister is a single mum in a low paying job (working in an important, caring sector where the pay does not reflect the job), and I would never buy her a really expensive gift because I know it would make her feel really uncomfortable.

we are generous with her kids though. Usually vouchers or money cos they're a bit older, but I would hate her to either feel like she had to reciprocate our gift to her, or feel like shit that we had spent a lot of money on her.

I would say I always give her a thoughtful gift though.

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