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To hate the phrase love you to the moon and back?

175 replies

hickorydickorynurseryrhyme · 02/04/2017 21:39

Just find it irritating

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BitOutOfPractice · 03/04/2017 08:03

I think it's so hard to express love without resorting to cliché.

hickorydickorynurseryrhyme · 03/04/2017 08:14

I think that's it Jonesy, it's because it's become so popular that everyone is saying it on fb and things and I'm justlike not again!

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ToddWheresMyGoddamnLatte · 03/04/2017 08:14

I hate this phrase with a passion OP, YADNBU.

It could of course have something to do with the fact that my STBEx and his 18 year old BOTS used it in their declarations of lust love to each other.

It doesn't help that it's feckin everywhere at the moment.

RedHelenB · 03/04/2017 08:23

My son got me a Christmas present with this on and it is priceless to me. YABU.

UndersecretaryofWhimsy · 03/04/2017 08:31

Luchi that is just lovely. Don't let these cynical fuckers get you down. Flowers

dylsmimi · 03/04/2017 08:32

See multivac I don't like that poem either - must be a bitter person. Causing children around the world to feel unloved!
Op I agree I hate it. Probably because mil (who I do get on with) uses it ALL the time and makes all the grandchildren say it back. It just grates on me for unknown reasons
Maybe because I used to read little nut brown hate to ds1 even before he was born to make a special book then mil came and made the phrase 'her' thing in a bigger and louder way. So maybe not unknown reason after all ! Wink

GrandDesespoir · 03/04/2017 08:37

Horribly twee. Particularly when posted on Facebook at every opportunity. Referring to people who don't even have a Facebook account.

hickorydickorynurseryrhyme · 03/04/2017 08:39

Also i did try to read that hare book to my ds but he was never fussed about that one so it's just gone in the charity bag

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tireddotcom72 · 03/04/2017 08:41

It was my dd favourite story when she was little we had to read it every night and sometimes several times a day too x she always told me she loves me to the moon and back and all the way round the stars. She still tells me every night when she goes to bed and texts me it on the way to school. The rest of time she hates me I'm sure!

For Xmas she bought us a moon and star pandora charm each.

thegreylady · 03/04/2017 08:47

I think any genuine expression of love is beautiful.
Debbi Gliori's book No Matter What has the line "Love ,like Starlight, never dies."
That might seem cliched and ,indeed, love can die sometimes but it is still a sentiment to be encouraged in our beloved children so they can feel safe and secure in our love.
My adult dd bought me a little pewter plaque which says 'Love you to the moon and back' and I was very touched.

multivac · 03/04/2017 08:58

See multivac I don't like that poem either - must be a bitter person

It would be very odd if everyone in the world did. I notice, though, that you are able to say you don't like it, without suggesting that someone else liking it is twattish, unimaginative, and makes you "vom in your mouth".

D'you see?

AmericanPastoral · 03/04/2017 09:53

I love my kids almost as much as Peter Andre loves his? archedbrowse Smile Smile For some reason he popped up in my Twitter feed today. His profile starts * "Loving dad" as opposed to the more accurate "Shit dad who pimps out his kids to make a living". He would now have us believe that he suffers from social anxiety.

TathitiPete · 03/04/2017 10:04

I'm just jealous of all of you whose DC are telling you that they love you Grin

Yesterday I asked DD(who's 4) if she loved Daddy and she said "Yeah. I don't like Mummy"

Rossigigi · 03/04/2017 10:07

We say 'love you more than all
The stars in the sky and all the fishes in the sea' don't care if anyone hates it, we like it so use it.

gigi556 · 03/04/2017 10:11

YANBU

I can't stand it either!!! Vomitous! In fact, I mentioned it the other day to someone when I saw it printed on a baby grow. Ick!

attilathehamster · 03/04/2017 10:16

In this house you are likely to be told, "Love you so, hideous bumface". Works for us.

And my DC often say "Love you to Voyager and back", which I like as the distance is getting larger all the time.

Soppy old bugger, me.

Pottedplants · 03/04/2017 10:47

I've been thinking about this again and concluded that what bothers me most about these shit one liner declarations of love is there is no real thought by the person saying it.

The other issue I have with them though is the impulsive need by the person using such shit to put it in writing social media thereby inflicting it on me.

BitOutOfPractice · 03/04/2017 11:17

"Nut brown hate". Best autocorrect ever Grin

None of these phrases bother me and I am the most irritable person in the world. Because it seems churlish to hate on people loving each other

hickorydickorynurseryrhyme · 03/04/2017 14:10

Bit out of practice, agreed, hate is a strong word probably not the best choice but I still find it annoying

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Winetemptress · 03/04/2017 14:15

Boak, and the'love you lots like jelly tots' ffs.

monty1212 · 18/09/2017 12:51

I hate it too. There is no amount you love person. So you either love them or not but to put distance its just seem false. I hate it with passion. Also how many people have been to moon and back to actually know thats how much they love? I hate any prescriptive descriptions of love. Isnt I love you enough already?

EnglishRose13 · 18/09/2017 13:15

In the grand scheme of these, the moon isn't even that far away.

Why can people love you to Uranus and back? Now, that's real love!

sleepymama81 · 18/09/2017 13:25

We read Guess How Much I Love You to DD (17 months) nearly every night as her bedtime story. Her and OH say 'I love you to the moon and back' to each other (well she says a few of the words and snuggles him) and it absolutely melts me. I got him a little key ring with it on for Father Day from her, engraved with their initials because it means something special to them. He loved it.

But I also agree that Daddy Nutbrown Hare is a bit of a bloody show off, always going one better and if OH posted something like that about me on social media I'd cringe. He just wouldn't! He tells me he loves me, face to face!

NikiBabe · 18/09/2017 13:27

I like this one Grin

To hate the phrase love you to the moon and back?
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