To wonder if dh is using bathroom time to avoid family time.

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Dh works hard and is great for hen he is around, however.....

He gets up at 6.30 and leaves at 7.15 (before anyone else is up) during this time he will leisurely get himself ready, have breakfast and leave a mess.

I also work full time and get up at 7.20ish, get 2xdc up, dressed, breakfasted, and our to childminder. I then go to work.

I then do my full day's work, pick up dc's get home make dinner clear up etc.

Dh gets in about 6. Has his dinner, then spends 45 mins in the bathroom on the toilet and showering. By then it is 6.45 and we have to get dc's ready for bed.

I get so annoyed about it, can't see how it can take so long. So aibu to find this infuriating???

I love Jux's idea😈

I can't help but think you've given him an inch and he's taking a mile op.

Yes he should see this for himself but does he even know this is a problem for you? Sounds like he's getting away with it and you're letting him.