My DD had a close group of friends as Primary ( some male). She went to a different school to them but still keeps in touch with most of them, largely on snapchat.
One of the boys has always been a bit controlling of her, I suspect he " fancies" her but she's not interested. He has messaged he things such as him losing at a sport because she's upset him and once even invented a girlfriend who subsequently " died". All very silly but she shows me the messages and I've told her to ignore anything like that.
Last night she came into my room visibly upset, she has posted a photo of herself with 1 female and 2 male friends from her new school on her snapchat story. This boy then launched a tirade about how she was s fucking Whore and slut and none of her old friends liked her anymore and they all hated her ( not true, she is meeting a couple of them tomorrow in fact)
I am absolutely disgusted by this and her Dad is furious too. I don't know his family but if I tried I could probably track them down but we haven't decided whether to do so yet. I told her that she had to block him immediately, which she said she intended to but that she had sent him a reply.
She basically told him that for a boy of his age to use such disgusting and sexist language was completely out of order and she pitied any female who had to come in contact with him. She also told him that his words said far more about him and his issues than about her. She also told him that slut shaming was what men/boys who felt inadequate did to females they couldn't control.
Although I'm upset this happened and she was too ( had a little cry) I'm so proud of how she dealt with it. She's also had a lot of support from old and new friends which has made her feel better.
Has anyone else had to deal with anything similar and should I take further action? No idea what, they are at different schools so can't expect either school to get involved.