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Help! Advice needed after garden bush cutting accident.

34 replies

C0rdelia · 30/03/2017 20:23

I'm going to have to put this in points due to the panic.

  1. My husband organised gardeners to cut down the overgrown bush at the end of the garden.
  1. Gardener cut bush but didn't realise he was also cutting the bushes belonging to garden behind.
  1. Neighbours behind have just sent us a letter suggesting court and assuming we did this on purpose.
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bionicant · 30/03/2017 20:25

blimey how much did they cut? seems a bit OTT!

MycatsaPirate · 30/03/2017 20:25

Does gardener have insurance?

Are your neighbours normally so aggressive? Could they not actually try talking to you first?

KingJoffreysRestingCuntface · 30/03/2017 20:25

Tell them to chill out and wait for it to grow back.

It was an accident. These things happen. They're only bushes.

scruffmacduff · 30/03/2017 20:26

Could you apologise (lots) and offer to buy new plants to fill the space left?

LynetteScavo · 30/03/2017 20:27

You need to go and talk to the neighbours, and ask what you can do to put it right.

You should have done this straight away, with an apology.

You and the neighbours are both out of order. Suggesting legal action before speaking to you is unreasonable, but maybe you're always out when they've come round? Or maybe they're just arses.

SantinoRice · 30/03/2017 20:29

Disappointed this was about real bushes 😒

Palomb · 30/03/2017 20:29

If the bushes were overhanging your garden you have every right to cut the back to the boundary.

I very much doubt any decent gardener would cut beyond a boundary without explicit permission from both landowners.

C0rdelia · 30/03/2017 20:30

Gardener cut a foot off the top of their bushes.

Neighbours have had huge firework parties which scare our cats and leave us covered in detritus but we clear everything up, without comment, because we are aware these things are only once a year.

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C0rdelia · 30/03/2017 20:33

Lynette. My husband spoke to the neighbour and apologised immediately. That's why it's a shock to get the letter

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Joey7t8 · 30/03/2017 20:37

Let them take you to court and watch the judge try to suppress a snigger at any monetary claim that they make for the stress and loss of earnings that having their bush cut has caused.

Miniwookie · 30/03/2017 20:40

Are neighbours minted? It would be v expensive to take you to court for criminal damage for bushes that will grow back anyway. And what a dickish way to conduct neighbourly relations! Have they asked you for something specific - money to replace bushes? New bushes? Apology?

gleam · 30/03/2017 20:41

Didn't the gardener see the fence or a different type of bush?

ForTheSakeOfFuck · 30/03/2017 20:41

Speculatively, this seems like the gardener's deal, not yours. Can you hand them his/her info and send them on their way?

HerBluebiro · 30/03/2017 20:42

Let them take you to court.

Does the letter containing the threat say what they want from you to prevent them taking you to court? Money? New bushes? What?

It is a bush. It will grow back.

blueskyinmarch · 30/03/2017 20:44

Is it a letter from them or a solicitor? Can’t you respond by letter explaining it was a mistake and you are happy to sort it out without going through court. Suggest giving them money to replace the bushes you cut down - maybe offer a reasonable sum?

Birdsgottaf1y · 30/03/2017 20:45

I'd suggest Judge Rinder, I'd like to hear what he thinks of the neighbors bush.

On a serious note, the Council was replacing fencing and destroyed shrubs that were in myvrelatives garden. Her Grandmother had planted them, so they had sentimental value.

They got the cost of replacing them and nothing else.

Floggingmolly · 30/03/2017 20:45

They'll probably have already grown back by the time the case is heard. How would they prove the bushes used to be taller, anyway?

QuackDuckQuack · 30/03/2017 20:47

It will have grown back before they could get it to court. I know it sounds serious, but their over response is quite funny.

ineedamoreadultieradult · 30/03/2017 20:47

Point them in the direction of your gardener.

CosyCoupe88 · 30/03/2017 20:48

Also disappointed this is not about real bushes.

GlitteryFluff · 30/03/2017 20:48

It'll grow back, what's the issue? Can you go round and try to reason with them?

CosyCoupe88 · 30/03/2017 20:48

Bollocks. You know what j mean

NoArmaniNoPunani · 30/03/2017 20:50

Let them take you to court. Dickheads

Vegansnake · 30/03/2017 20:52

Oh dear,my mind is in the gutter today..I thought you meant lady garden

TheWitTank · 30/03/2017 20:52

So it's not a solicitors letter? What else do they suggest, do they want a monetary amount (bet they do -out for a quick quid!).
I would be tempted to call their bluff. Unless you have done irreparable damage to said bushes then they will very quickly grow back up.