I am undecided.
I don't think there's a big beardy man in the sky who cares what you do with your genitals.
After all, unless it's asexual reproduction (cloning) you need a male and a female to reproduce, so why wouldn't there be a female god too? Or a god who was both or neither gender??
I think there might be an entity around us, an energy, and my explanation for this I thought of the other day:
I think god is like a CEO at a company. You hardly ever see them, they're always in their office doing something. But no one knows what they actually do. People complain and say they get paid loads for doing very little. But they simply don't see what goes on behind closed doors. There's so much to keep the business (the universe) afloat.
I think god is doing so much stuff we can't even comprehend. For example souls and reincarnation, if this is true, the work to keep everything going and changing would be immense.
I don't think therefore god would have time to listen to prayers of each person, and even if they did they couldn't show favouritism.
People will say then why would they let people suffer, well okay, who's suffering? A 5 year old girl has terminal cancer. It's a natural phenomenon, death has to happen. Yes it's sad, but death is always sad. If we kept every body alive every body would suffer more from overcrowding, dehydration, starvation and disease.
Why do natural disasters happen? Well they're just that, natural. They're sad yes, but since the dawn of time, Ice ages, fires, plagues have all happened, population control.
But that's just my 2 cents.