He hurt and abused his wife, he admitted it, he should be punished, with jail
I agree.
As I have said previously, the sentence was not suspended due to any considerations about the victim's vulnerability. That was a red herring. It was suspended due to the alleged offer from Leicestershire. Although I can understand why the judge suspended the sentence, given current sentencing practice, I do not agree that this is a good enough reason to suspend sentence in this case.
But don't let the bastard off because of some cock-eyed view about what a judge thinks women should do in certain situations
Just to repeat, the judge's view on the victim's vulnerability did not affect the sentence at all. It is one of three factors that, under the sentencing guidelines, can move the offence into the most serious category of harm. If any one of these is present the offence goes into the top category. In terms of the actual sentence, however, it makes no difference if 1, 2 or 3 of the factors are present.
It does not need to be if you start with the premise all women should be free of physical/emotional/financial and sexual abuse - just as we do with men
We do. And suggesting that the courts treat men differently is true only in as much as someone attacking a woman is likely to get a higher sentence than someone attacking a man.