Me and my partner are saving for a mortgage. PIL owe us 400, BIL1 owes us 175 and BIL2 owes us 50. BIL2 wants to borrow a further 400 and will then pay us back at the end of april when he gets his student loan. He wanted to buy something on finance but got declined, not sure what it was.
I am fully prepared to be told I am being unreasonable, as we will get it back at the end of April, and he said he would give us extra on top.
DP wants to lend him the money, but i'm a bit fed up of having to lend his family money. PIL have no idea when they'll pay us back and BIL1 was supposed to pay us back by now. AIBU in not wanting to lend it?