This probably shouldn't be in AIBU as I think I probably am anyway. Just need a vent! I've just had a slight argument with OH and walked out and driven off. Nothing major, have 3 kids in the house, crap everywhere from lunchtime, piles of washing to do and general tidying up. The kids messing around and I'm trying to make a start on cleaning. OH only goes and starts cleaning his fish tank. Took all the filters out covered in fish crap and puts them in the sink with all the dirty plates. turns the tap on and the water splashes over the CLEAN plates that were on the draining board. Then goes back to his fish tank to get more parts to clean, dripping fish water all over the floor each time. Then tells me his mum is coming round for a 'coffee' it's never just a coffee. it'll always turns in to 3 hours of listening to her talk and I'm expected to sit and chat when I have 3 kids to sort out and a house to clean. all before taking them out to a party at 2:30. So, after realising that sitting on my still unmade bed upstairs isn't a good hiding place, I got my car keys and left. so now I'm sat in my car outside a random house 2 streets away from my house and don't know what to do next!