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Not wanting to get my shopping delivered

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charliebear78 · 08/03/2017 14:16

So,I am a bored Housewife and get my weekly Shopping Delivered.
I work out from home using the internet-keep reading this will make sense soon-One day after finishing a work out the Delivery turned up earlier so I was in full workout gear and a sweaty mess-Typically Delivery Guy was young,musular and good looking!-He then started to ask me lots of questions about Exercise blah blah blah-said at the end of our chat-"Well it obviously works,You look good!"
So,I was quite chuffed and once he had gone had a little chuckle and hair swish to myself!!!!
Fast forward to now and hes been a few more times(not always him)and I am starting to feel uncomfortable now.
I always make sure I am reasonably dressed(not in tight gym wear etc)and he still keeps asking me about exercise-dropping little comments like "oh you could be a fitness model">cringe and telling me how good I look.
He knows I have young children(they are running about the place when he brings the shopping in)He knows I have a partner as he asked me about the bikes in my garage(partners)
Everytime I see its him now I just feel anxious.
Yesterday after delivering the shopping he sent me a Facebook friend request and a message saying"You looked Hot Today!"
Haha-this could be the start of a terrible 80s Porno!
Gonna have to be straight with him aren't I ?
Except I am quite shy and that thought scares me-instead I would rather just smile and titter nervously while he complements me!
Argh!!!!
Feeling like changing to a different Supermarket-Except I LIKE the one we use and do not really want to.
Or should I just lap it up and laugh to myself when he's gone?

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EnormousTiger · 11/03/2017 11:50

My most interesting was the man who had a legal outsourcing business in India - why deliver Tesco shopping in that case? I suppose he was just getting the business off the ground and good for him.

Some like a good old moan and love it when you tell them how hard they work. Some like to say how difficult the company duties are. It is quite an art getting to know what to say back to them to make them feel good. I've not yet had one making sexual overtures though......

GatoradeMeBitch · 11/03/2017 12:24

I'm having the same issue with an amazon delivery driver - he stares at me and stands too close. Last time he came he wanted to know whether I as a Mrs or a Miss and asked me to confirm that I'm single.

But I'm not enjoying the attention at all. So now I'm avoiding Amazon even though I could do with ordering a few things. Their drivers never last long, so I hope he doesn't pop up again...

RebelRogue · 11/03/2017 13:04

The issue here is him using info from work to look OP up on FB. That is not ok,justifiable or excusable in any way. So OP you can either report him for that or just message him and say exactly that and that his interest in unwelcome.

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