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To think cellulite is for life

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BottomlyP0tts · 27/02/2017 08:27

I'm late 20s about a size 6 when not pregnant.

Currently pregnant with baby number 3. I look down at my thighs and realise my 59 year old mother has better legs than me.

DP used to love my legs now he suggest I "try something else" every time I put on a skirt.

It's here for life right? Why am I so depressed about this.

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NavyandWhite · 27/02/2017 09:02

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BottomlyP0tts · 27/02/2017 09:03

NavyandWhite sorry that was a typo!

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DontTouchTheMoustache · 27/02/2017 09:04

Navy we were referring to sofias comment:

I don't think it's too bad however you need to do something about it

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BottomlyP0tts · 27/02/2017 09:05

MaidOfStars what is a great diet?

Also is body brushing just using a stiff brush before a shower or something more?

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Littleballerina · 27/02/2017 09:11

op. I'm a size 6 with cellulite. The only difference is is that dp would never make me feel bad about it!

BarbaraofSeville · 27/02/2017 09:17

I found that exercise like running, fast walking and cycling was the best way to improve the appearance of my legs.

I'm far too lazy to indulge in anything like body brushing and am skeptical that it would make any significant difference anyway.

Semaphorically · 27/02/2017 09:23

He really needs to learn that it's never ok to critique someone else's body. Ever. Do you have daughters?

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BottomlyP0tts · 27/02/2017 09:30

Semaphorically I agree - and he is working on it. Trust me any body talk like that is banned in front of our boys.

He won't eat in front of people and is very worried about his weight etc. Would never dream of being in togs in front of people.

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BottomlyP0tts · 27/02/2017 09:32

He is aware of his issues and determined to not raise boys with that attitude. Unfortunately I have had to deal with it a few times. Which doesn't sit well with me at all..... in every other way he is a fantastic partner.

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specialsubject · 27/02/2017 09:32

It will either go or not, same as stretch marks. Stinky creams and time wasting rituals will do nothing. Beauty product claims are just that, claims.

DeleteOrDecay · 27/02/2017 09:34

I think we've lost sight of what a normal female body looks like. Op there's nothing wrong with your legs and your DH is being a massive dick head by saying there is.

Honestly it's normal, by all means if you want to try and get rid of it do so. But do it for you, no one else.

Whatthefudger · 27/02/2017 09:34

I have cellulite and I really couldn't give a fuck. It doesn't bother me at all.

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BottomlyP0tts · 27/02/2017 09:37

Whatthefudger have you always been this confident? It's fantastic

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SerialCerealKiller · 27/02/2017 09:38

There's nothing wrong with your body op! You've got lovely legs, who cares about a bit of cellulite that you only get when you sit down.

Why don't you look for some positives? What do you like most about yourself?

ShutTheFuckUpBarbara · 27/02/2017 09:39

2 separate issues here :

Your DP doesn't sound very nice or supportive. Regardless of what he thinks, your body is yours to do as you please with, and even if you did want to try and improve your cellulite (which doesn't look too bad btw, much like most women I know), now is hardly the time!

The cellulite itself. As PP have said, although it is genetic it can still be improved. I used to think I was "stuck" with mine too, but weight training and a reduction in body fat have got rid of most of it. I am 37 and I am wearing shorts again ; I hadn't owned a pair of shorts since I was 19 or 20.

Whatthefudger · 27/02/2017 09:41

I'm not confident. I just don't care about cellulite. I actually had to look before typing that post to check I still had it. Because genuinely I haven't looked at my arse thigh area for so long to check. I was bothered perhaps 10 years ago, but it's not something I ever think about. I don't think DHL has even noticed

Whatthefudger · 27/02/2017 09:42

That should say DH. Not in the business of showing the delivery man my arse

sofiainwonderland · 27/02/2017 09:44

@donttouchthemoustache I never said it's something bad, unless it bothers you. If it bothers you, it's bad...

silkpyjamasallday · 27/02/2017 09:55

Honestly so so many women have cellulite (just think about the rings of shame on celebs in trashy mags), and I don't think being overweight has anything to do with it, certainly not in my case. I'm a size 6 too, was a 4 before I got pregnant have never been even close to overweight and I have had cellulite since I was about 16, despite doing ballet 3 times a week since I was 4 yo, I had fantastic muscle tone but still had it. Body brushing did nothing for me and I am highly sceptical that a cream will do anything either! It is difficult because of the messages women are given in the media to accept it yourself, but loving your body the way it is will change your life! You have given life to two people and are currently building a third, that is amazing, as a PP said what has your DP done with his that is so impressive? He needs a reality check, and maybe point out that even children know not to make personal remarks, the reason you feel bad about the cellulite is probably more due to your DPs shitty attitude breaking down your self esteem than due to the cellulite itself.

Iamastonished · 27/02/2017 10:01

I have always been slim and have always had cellulite. I go to the gym 2 or three times a week and cycle. I have tried body brushing and anti cellulite diets. Nothing gets rid of my cellulite

My problem is that I am pear shaped and if I lose any more weight I would look even more ridiculous and skeletal on my top half, with massive thighs on my bottom half.

Sallystyle · 27/02/2017 10:15

It's for life for me it seems.

I am not overweight but I was once and it never got any better now I'm slim and ive been slim for years.

It's here to stay.

Sallystyle · 27/02/2017 10:18

don't think it's too bad however you need to do something about it.

She really doesn't. Unless she wants to of course. I don't like mine but I'm not going to try to get rid of it because I'm not really bothered. Plus, I don't believe there is anything you can do about it if you're already slim and getting some exercise.

MaidOfStars · 27/02/2017 10:49

He he, 'great diet' might be up for debate on various aspects! But cutting calories generally. No bread/crisps/adding sugar. Cut down on other carbs. Massive increase in fresh veg and protein.

Bansteadmum · 27/02/2017 11:04

Don't let his issues affect your body image.

He should seek help for his eating/body issues.

snoopyokay · 27/02/2017 11:16

I'm a size 8 and have always had cellulite - it really doesn't bother me, most of the time I'm in jeans anyway so it's very rare that people see my legs, and people are so much more concerned with how they look rather than looking for your faults.

Your DH though, not cool, hope he can change his attitude as it's clearly affecting your confidence.

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