AIBU? Sisters wedding

[Lostatsea43]

My sister ran away on Friday and got married, only their best friends and their children attended the wedding. I am happy for them as I know my new BIL wanted a small wedding.

They and all my and his family live 200 hundred miles away. They have chosen to get married 20 miles away from where I live and they have sent texts of where they will be visiting over the weekend.

AIBU's to be really pissed off that she has not even invited me and my family over to have a drink and celebrate their wedding. I am her only sibling.

Firstly she didn't run away 😂 She is an adult and can get married however she likes.

Maybe they want a few days of doing things/being married before they start visiting family, again she us an adult and if that's her choice deal with it!

Why don't you text your sister " hi, sis. Congratulations what wonderful news, very happy for you would you like to meet for a few drinks or a meal to celebrate" It isn't all on her to contact you and invite you to hers your an adult and more than capable of inviting her aren't you

Do you feel she's sending these texts because she wants to 'bump into' you over the weekend?