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To wonder if boys should be vasectomised at birth?

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Dutch1e · 17/02/2017 20:30

If a vasectomy was painless, 100% reversible and could only be reversed when the boy had reached adulthood and had some counselling sessions to help him understand the implications of his decision, would it be a good idea to make vasectomies normal for baby boys?

Just musing on the threads about child services, child abuse and thinking about accidental pregnancies

OP posts:
PhoebeGetsIt · 18/02/2017 01:00

Sounds too much like eugenics Confused. This topic although hypothetical, scares the shit out of me.

RebelRogue · 18/02/2017 01:01

YetAnother call me idealistic,but if we're thinking about perfect worlds,wouldn't education,support etc to prevent those kinds of situations be better than a blanket policy sterilisation? I mean if money is being spent anyways and all that...

MommaGee · 18/02/2017 01:02

this thought experiment may not be nearly as fantastic as some people imagine
And that's why people get so het up. We're not so far from A Brave New World capabilities and this would be a step in the right direction

SteamTrainsRealAleandOpenFires · 18/02/2017 01:03

Ok OP, are you personally willing to sacrifice your sons' fertility, so your "evil plans" come to fruition?

NO....I didn't think so.

Anyway, another scenario... for OP to consider:- your "evil plan" happens...would poor people be targeted first with offers of cash & other luxuries (only to be told that the ops never happened when the boys' are 18 & there is no paperwork to be found)?.

Where the hell do you live? On the fucking mythical "A ARK"

You're a very dangerous wazzock!.

ActuallyThatsSUPREMECommander · 18/02/2017 01:09

There are American charities which offer adult female drug addicts cash to go on LARC - which I personally think is fair enough - or to be sterilised, which is probably not.

SeriousSteve · 18/02/2017 01:15

What the actual fuck?

SteamTrainsRealAleandOpenFires · 18/02/2017 01:22

Doesn't anyone remember the sub-plot in Demolition Man? Sex with helmets and no touching, and reproduction in labs?

Brave New World

Sexmission

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Forgot to add this bit to my last post:-

OP Why not just put males in to "male chastity devices" cheaper in the long run...yes?

DioneTheDiabolist · 18/02/2017 01:23

Steam, I think you under estimate the fear of some parents when it comes to their DC having a child with undesirables.Hmm When it is little Cressida, they would force an abortion, when it is little Tarqin, they would tie his tubes at birth.

ElvishArchdruid · 18/02/2017 01:26

I must be dreaming or something, that's like asking if we should give all girls a permanent form of contraception from the time of her period, like the implant. When they pass a test they can have it removed to consider conceiving.

Have you been eating special cookies?

SteamTrainsRealAleandOpenFires · 18/02/2017 01:33

Dione I understand what you're say, but what the "OP" is advocating isn't the answer.

bridgetoc · 18/02/2017 02:07

This belongs in the feminism thread........ They are out of control and crazy over there.

DioneTheDiabolist · 18/02/2017 02:09

Well it is a kind of answer. At the minute moment, naice families can and do force their teenage daughters to have abortions. What they can't do is force their teenage son's girlfriends to do the same. If they are able to tie his tubes at birth, well then they have just as much control over his ability to procreate as they do their daughters.

It has fuck all to do with abuse or health or the rights of women. It's a fucked up proposal designed to put reproductive rights into the hands of "those who know best".

TisMeTheLadFromTheBar · 18/02/2017 02:12
Hmm
VeryBitchyRestingFace · 18/02/2017 02:38

Have you been reading The Passion of New Eve, OP?

I ❤️ me some Angela Carter.

Slarti · 18/02/2017 07:04

It's interesting that people have got so incredibly would up at the idea of any limit on male fertility.

Maybe it's the fact that it's highly unethical to undermine bodily autonomy and force invasive operations on children at an age when they are unable to consent or refuse. Just a thought!

OrchidaceousRose · 18/02/2017 07:14

Any government that tried to bring this in, overtly or covertly, democratic or totalitarian, would be lucky just to be out of power and not wholly assassinated.

People do not like having their fertility messed around with, or unnecessary medical procedures, especially on small children. Because the fact is that there is no medical procedure that is entirely without risk.

Eugenics is a disgusting form of arrogant supremacy, whatever shape it takes or wherever it emanates from.

BertrandRussell · 18/02/2017 07:15

"Maybe it's the fact that it's highly unethical to undermine bodily autonomy and force invasive operations on children at an age when they are unable to consent or refuse. Just a thought!"

Absolutely. Which is why I suggested changing the method to something totally non invasive, safe, reversible and painless, so we could talk about the principle, not the process.

BertrandRussell · 18/02/2017 07:17

"Eugenics is a disgusting form of arrogant supremacy, whatever shape it takes or wherever it emanates from."

Is it eugenics if the person concerned has complete control over the process of reversal?

KungFuPandaWorksOut16 · 18/02/2017 07:23

I thought with a vasectomy the longer you have had it the lower chance of the reversal being successful. For example 10 years of a having a vasectomy the success rate would be lower than somebody who has only had the vasectomy a year Confused
Or am I conpletley wrong Blush

OrchidaceousRose · 18/02/2017 07:25

Bloomsbury has always been a breeding ground for stopping the lower orders breeding like rabbits eh Bertie.

It is disingenuous to divorce the principle and the process in this instance. The totally painless, safe, reversible, non invasive process you mention does not exist.

Arrogating such powers is just another way of designating some as sub-human whilst others are superhuman. It is to treat people as livestock. It is fundamentally disrespectful.

BertrandRussell · 18/02/2017 07:25

"Or am I conpletley wrong blush"

No, you're completely right. Which is why this isn't real.Smile

OrchidaceousRose · 18/02/2017 07:27

Method doesn't exist Bertrand so much of what you say is moot.

And anyway, I would say that assuming even temporary control of another person's fertility is eugenics- the decision is taken out of their hands, even if it can be handed back.

Is it theft if you intend to give it back? Yes, if you didn't have the owner's consent in advance.

BertrandRussell · 18/02/2017 07:29

"It is disingenuous to divorce the principle and the process in this instance. The totally painless, safe, reversible, non invasive process you mention does not exist."

No of course it doesn't. How is it disingenuous to suggest terms for a completely hypothetical thought experiment? There is, obviously, no possible argument for this using current medical technology. So if we want to talk about it in terms of ethics, politics or philosophy we have to invent a method of doing it which doesn't make the argument fall at the first hurdle.

MephistophelesApprentice · 18/02/2017 07:31

Personally I think installing a switch at birth would be ok, like the design that was mooted a while ago, but it would have to be a switch that the individual could operate themselves without outside assistance and it would have to be installed equally in men and women.

All the usual caveats about safety and effectiveness being outside of present tech, of course.

Having indulged the thought experiment, I have to say how utterly unsurprised I am by the rapidity with which the Feminist Chat regulars embraced the idea of cutting up young boys.

SabineUndine · 18/02/2017 07:35

Just savouring the word 'vasectomised', which is new to me.