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To get pissed of with neighbours for shouting at ds playing footie in our street

67 replies

ssd · 28/02/2007 17:23

when his ball never goes near their effin car and hasn't for the last 2 years he's been allowed out the front to play?

if there ever was damage of course we'd pay, but FFS dh is out their playing with him now and the balls nowhere near the bloody car in question.

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opinionsrus · 28/02/2007 18:07

Anyone know about the "illegal" bit.................could be quite handy???

Lazylou · 28/02/2007 18:07

We live in a smallish block of flats which has a 'green' outside. We are on the ground floor, right next to the main door to the flats, so in the summer, all the kids are out there, smashing their footballs off of my windows.

Don't get me wrong, I don't mind the kids playing outside on the green, but there is a huge back garden, which is fenced off and only accessed through the rear door to the block. There are no washing lines dotted around this area, as you so often get with flats. I just don't see the need for it. At the same time, there is a huge park across the road and I mean literally opposite the flats, which has a purpose built football pitch etc.

Why do the kids need to play out the front when there is, IMO safer spaces available? Sorry, this subject riles me. DH has had several dents to his car (which he drives for a living) and broken windows. They always tend to aim the ball purposely at the window to DD's bedroom, usually when she is trying to sleep.

Things got so bad last year with the ball thwacking against my windows, that DH screamed at these kids to go and play somewhere else because of DD (and because its just plain annoying) and they haven't been back since. One kid was our next door neighbours DS and he came and apologised to us for the window thing. He now tells his mates that they have to play somewhere else because it isnt fair. His mum came with him, so knew the full score and surprisingly, was on our side.

southeastastra · 28/02/2007 18:09

illegal? bizarre our council is taking down the 'no ball games' signs

BrummieMomInMerthyr · 28/02/2007 18:14

Hate it! The kids down our road couldn't give a shit. Dh took a rugby ball off hem not so long ago cos it kept hitting our new car. he told them they could get their fathers up to ask for it back (we live at the top of a cul de sac)the boys came up later and apologised and they have been ok since, but it did take a lot of shouting! dh did look on the council website and it is legal, but with consideration for the neighbours ie soft/inflatable balls that can't damage property, not the effing leather ones they insisted on playing with!

FluffyMummy123 · 28/02/2007 18:15

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BrummieMomInMerthyr · 28/02/2007 18:17

Def cod, thats what pisses me off so much, there are parks near - and they aren't on the top of a hill like our road!

FluffyMummy123 · 28/02/2007 18:18

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BrummieMomInMerthyr · 28/02/2007 18:20

lol!

fortyplus · 28/02/2007 18:20

Mine have got proper footballs they take to the park and foam ones they use in the garden. They can kick the foam ones quite hard and they don't go too far or fast and they don't damage the flowers. That keeps everyone happy.

twentypence · 28/02/2007 18:28

How unreasonable depends on how far away the local park is. After all your dh is out with him too. Wouldn't it be nicer to play on grass?

FluffyMummy123 · 28/02/2007 18:29

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opinionsrus · 28/02/2007 18:30

Even worse is a rugby ball - thrown right up into the air and see whose car it lands on???

2shoes · 28/02/2007 18:33

i do get annoyed when they play football outside my house. but only because there is a park behind my house. also the asme group of kids do it but never outside thier houses. I never say anything though just moan to myself.

Tortington · 28/02/2007 18:33

in the summer i move my car so the kids ( usually not mine) can play kerby. outside my house is the only place as we are one house down from a corner.

i like kids playing i the street. outside their homes. where parents can watch.

last summer the old bastard from accross the street came over and had a go at me. telling me the kids were playing ball. i said " they arn't my kids" he said "you let them" i told him to speak to their parents.

i would have been more amicable i'm sure should he not have been so loud and accusing and intimidating and arseholish.

i dont like kids playing ball against the end of a house - i think its disrespectful of the occupier - however that isnt a problem here.

Greeves · 28/02/2007 18:34

Agree with cod, you lot are a bunch of curmudgeonly old minny-pinnies

The three boys who live next door to us are football MAD, I get at least three footballs a week over the fence, and I always make a point of passing it back over with a smile. I like them, they are great energetic lively kids. We got a box of biscuits fo Christmas with a note attached saying "Thanks for returning our footballs", so we sent them a box of chocs and a new football in return

Live and let live!

Cloudhopper · 28/02/2007 18:36

Well, I have to agree that kids playing football is a necessary evil. There are two lads on our road who play and after my initial shock that anyone actually plays in the road anymore, I felt a nostalgic tingle for the days when every street was full of kids racing about.

FluffyMummy123 · 28/02/2007 18:37

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Twiglett · 28/02/2007 18:43

we need to re-plaster our outside wall because of the footballers (he did it .. he did it) .. its a shed that goes down the length of our house and the wall of which is the outside wall .. hence it is plastered

I do accept that they play but that doesn't mean I have to like it nor that I shouldn't try to get them to play in the most reasonable manner .. ie not against my wall .. not so ball flies into my garden / window .. and if they don't live here then outside their own feckin' houses

I think really this thread has just proved quite what an irritation it can be when its not your kid playing and hopefully given OP pause for thought

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Greeves · 28/02/2007 18:44

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Twiglett · 28/02/2007 18:45

that you Snot-Sleeves?

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Fenella1 · 28/02/2007 18:53

Its not unreasonable.

I also cannot stand the creak creak creak of my neighbour's dd's trampoline. Admittedly its not causing damage but then I am the female version of Victor Meldrum.

Fenella1 · 28/02/2007 18:54

*Meldrew even

FluffyMummy123 · 28/02/2007 19:04

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Greeves · 28/02/2007 19:17

Yup, s'me, Grumpytrousers

ssd · 01/03/2007 07:24

well in answer ds has never damaged a car with a ball. he's never damaged anything. the neighbours in question spoke to him like he was dirt for playing with a ball, that was what agered us the most.

he's 8.

if it was big hulking lads booting balls against a wall, into gardens then of course this would drive you nuts.

but an 8 year old passing it back and forth to his friend or his dad - give me a break.

and he isn't ALLOWED near the park himself - it's 4 miles away!!

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