Genuinely don't know if I'm being UR or not but here goes...
Back story - DP and I both work full time, very long hours and have a toddler. Week days are spent working until 6 then playing with/bathing DD and putting her to bed. Then cooking cleaning washing emails and general household things that never seem to end.
Dp has always been into fitness and has all the work out stuff, weights benches etc. At home. In November time his friend decided he wanted to bulk up so dp has invited him over to work out with him (was supposed to be for a week then friend would do it at home once he knows a workout plan)
Anyway we have a small house and the only space to work out is our living room so now every single weeknight Monday- Friday DPs friend comes over at 9 and they work out in the living room (It's been 3 months!!)
I wake up at 6 and leave the house at 7.30am so by the time they are finished is late enough for me and I end up asleep before they are done, with them being downstairs I am demoted to the bedroom every week night and I miss doing normal things like watching tv/being with dp and just being able to have some wind down time in my own living room.
He says I am BU to want him to stop as this is his only hobby and he likes doing it with his friend as they can help each other with weights etc but I really don't like it and feel like I should be able to go in my living room after work without him and not feel like I'm invading on him and his friend.
I've told them to join a gym but he doesn't want to do that, I've suggested going to friends house but dp doesn't want to drive there and back every night.
I feel like I'm being a cow and irrational but I just want my week nights back!
AIBU?