Okay i don't get on well with my in laws, I'd say the relationship is okay at the moment since we've all got a bit of space.
Today I took my baskets from my mil's house and she asked to keep one. Bearing in mind there was quite a few but I could only find 3. I explained I needed it and she went off about how she had some but can't seem to find them, and likewise I also said I had more.
Amicably I took my baskets, she didn't seem to pleased, but she didn't seem to say anything more.
She's now made an issue about it and DH is arguing with me saying I was in the wrong and I should have given it.
The thing is she's hardly given me anything at all and it just seems like wants my stuff. Initially she did take a basket (these are wedding hampers btw) so it's not like I've not given it.
I understand morally I should have given it but surely just because I haven't doesn't mean I'm in the wrong.
I know this is a petty issue, but these petty issues come up a lot in my marriage and become very big.