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Posting here for traffic - need urgent opinions about my lovely Dog :-(

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Huskylover1 · 02/02/2017 20:07

I have posted in the doghouse section, but no replies, so posting here for traffic.

We have an awful predicament. Our dog is 8 years old. She suffered Glaucoma when she was 3 years old, and after treating the "bad" eye with multiple drops a day for 18 months, she had to have that eye removed (the tissue started to die).

On 22nd December, she walked in to a wall, and we knew something was wrong with her "good" eye. We got her to the vets and the pressure in her eye was too high, meaning that the Glaucoma had now hit her "good" eye, so she was hospitalised. She came home a few days later, and amazingly a week later had her sight back! Felt truly blessed!

She was placed on a treatment plan of about 11 drops a day. With a plan to gradually decrease this, as things stabilized. Thankfully, I work from home!

Anyway, since then she's had 2 more relapses (pressure in the eye too high). This is very painful. She was admitted again yesterday, to be placed on 2 IV drips. One reduces the pressure in the eye, the other hydrates her organs.

So, this is her 3rd admission and hooking up to IV's, since 22nd December. The vet says that with 3 admissions in 6 weeks, the prognosis for the eye doesn't look good, ie. she will be blind forever now, and we have 2 options :

1)Remove the remaining eye
2) Put to sleep

She is home now (picked her up this afternoon), and we don't have to make this decision until her next relapse. This could be tomorrow/next week/next month, no idea. The pressure will spike, she will be in pain, and we will have to quickly decide what to do.

I am not sure that I can see her with two sewn up eye sockets! It feels cruel. She is a magnificent beast, a black and white husky with bright blue eyes (well, she did have). She's a real hunter. Loves running wild off the lead and playing fetch, both of which will now be off the menu.

DH thinks we should remove the eye and see how she copes, but this is another major Op, and when we got the first eye out it was horrendous, she had a bad bleed and her whole face was matted in blood. I am thinking it would be kinder to PTS. I don't think it's fair to put her through another major Op, just to buy another 4 years (till her life expectancy), which would be a life of no sight and effectively no communication, as she can't speak!

That's the predicament....very grateful for any views.

OP posts:
pinkbraces · 07/02/2017 23:44

I am so sorry you lost your beautiful girl, she was so loved. Just be kind to yourselves Flowers

PrincessPeach08 · 07/02/2017 23:53

So sorry for your loss OP, she was a lucky girl to have had such a caring and loving home for 8 wonderful years Flowers

aurynne · 08/02/2017 00:11

OP... My heart goes too you. Dogs are too good to be defined just by words.

Both you and your DH made decisions based in your pure love for your dog. There are no wrong decisions here.

I am so, so sorry for your loss.

Would you tell us your dog's name?

Whywonttheyletmeusemyusername · 08/02/2017 00:23

Omg, so sad. Crying, whilst reading this. Am so sorry OPFlowers,

MrsPringles · 08/02/2017 07:59

Oh OP, I'm so sorry FlowersSad

Llanali · 08/02/2017 08:07

I'm really sorry to read this too. As someone who has fosters, and rescues, as well as my own gang, I know all too well how you feel. And it's shit. Really shit, but it's the right thing to have done.

Huskylover1 · 11/02/2017 20:53

Ah, only just seen these messages, thank you.

We are starting to feel a bit better. Eating is back to normal and the crying outbursts kind of finished (altho, I almost faltered today, telling someone that didn't know...it's their shocked faces that set me off!)

We were feeling quite chipper last night, had been talking about all the fun times, watching old video's etc (wine involved!), and then we picked up a voicemail from earlier, to say that her ashes were ready for collection....brought us down a peg or two!

We can't collect until Monday, as DH is working over the weekend and I don't want to go alone, as I've no idea how I will react to seeing a little box.

Actually, is it little? Or Big? Got a bit freaked out about that other thread about someone wanting to scatter human ashes in a garden and someone said it can be a bucket full! Obvs a dog would be smaller, but still!

And we don't know what to do with them. Could scatter them, but I feel I want to keep her close. Down side to that, is that every time I see the box it will remind me....her lead and harness were in my car for the first few days after we put her to sleep and that really didn't do me any favours whenever I got in the car (I've hidden them now).

I have a hilarious video of her...will post if I can figure out how....it's her jumping a fence that was designed to keep her off the grass for a bit whilst we repaired it. DH though funny...me not so much at the time! She was a lot younger then, but still jumped that high till the day before she went....x

OP posts:
BillyDaveysDaughter · 11/02/2017 21:59

So sorry Flowers

I suspect I will be posting something similar in the next few months...my dog has a spinal problem and we don't want to put her through another surgery. She doing okay but I think she hides her pain. She has started chewing at two spots on her hindquarters and at the foot on the same side, which the vet thinks is triggered by nerve pain. Her tremors are bad and she shows other peculiar behaviours. Just wish I knew when the right time will be, she's so stoic. We might be waiting for the day she very obviously can't walk, when she's in pain all the time already...

Anyway...I hope you're feeling better.

UnbornMortificado · 11/02/2017 22:02

Oh husky i know it always gets said but it's the last kind thing you do for your animals Flowers

Pleased your feeling just a tiny bit better.

Huskylover1 · 11/02/2017 22:06

Thanks guys. It's so fucking shit! I'm sorry billy that you are going through this too. :-( xx Crying now.

OP posts:
BillyDaveysDaughter · 11/02/2017 22:51

Cry away husky, it's healing and will get a little better every day. I will be heartbroken when mine goes but I'll know she had a good life. We did everything we could for them.

LordRothermereBlackshirtCunt · 12/02/2017 14:11

Flowers I understand. We lost our girl ten days ago and also got the call about the ashes yesterday. It was like being hit by a truck all over again. I want to go and collect her as I don't want her on some bloody shelf in the vets (and she really hated going to the vets). But I also can't face seeing that box and the added level of reality that it will bring. DH wants to scatter her ashes on a beach in Northumberland that we used to holiday at with her and which was her favourite place in the world. But I can't bear the thought of returning there without her.

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