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Posting here for traffic - need urgent opinions about my lovely Dog :-(

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Huskylover1 · 02/02/2017 20:07

I have posted in the doghouse section, but no replies, so posting here for traffic.

We have an awful predicament. Our dog is 8 years old. She suffered Glaucoma when she was 3 years old, and after treating the "bad" eye with multiple drops a day for 18 months, she had to have that eye removed (the tissue started to die).

On 22nd December, she walked in to a wall, and we knew something was wrong with her "good" eye. We got her to the vets and the pressure in her eye was too high, meaning that the Glaucoma had now hit her "good" eye, so she was hospitalised. She came home a few days later, and amazingly a week later had her sight back! Felt truly blessed!

She was placed on a treatment plan of about 11 drops a day. With a plan to gradually decrease this, as things stabilized. Thankfully, I work from home!

Anyway, since then she's had 2 more relapses (pressure in the eye too high). This is very painful. She was admitted again yesterday, to be placed on 2 IV drips. One reduces the pressure in the eye, the other hydrates her organs.

So, this is her 3rd admission and hooking up to IV's, since 22nd December. The vet says that with 3 admissions in 6 weeks, the prognosis for the eye doesn't look good, ie. she will be blind forever now, and we have 2 options :

1)Remove the remaining eye
2) Put to sleep

She is home now (picked her up this afternoon), and we don't have to make this decision until her next relapse. This could be tomorrow/next week/next month, no idea. The pressure will spike, she will be in pain, and we will have to quickly decide what to do.

I am not sure that I can see her with two sewn up eye sockets! It feels cruel. She is a magnificent beast, a black and white husky with bright blue eyes (well, she did have). She's a real hunter. Loves running wild off the lead and playing fetch, both of which will now be off the menu.

DH thinks we should remove the eye and see how she copes, but this is another major Op, and when we got the first eye out it was horrendous, she had a bad bleed and her whole face was matted in blood. I am thinking it would be kinder to PTS. I don't think it's fair to put her through another major Op, just to buy another 4 years (till her life expectancy), which would be a life of no sight and effectively no communication, as she can't speak!

That's the predicament....very grateful for any views.

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SpackenDeDoich · 06/02/2017 12:31

Flowers my heart goes out to you.

Huskylover1 · 06/02/2017 12:32

Yes flown, I agree. She loved running free (as you'll know, that's often not possible with a Husky, but her recall was amazing), she loved playing fetch, she loved sitting on our window seat watching the world go by....all those things would be off the menu. We would have given it a try though, but no, she was miserable, making a noise she's never made before....enough was enough.

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Aeroflotgirl · 06/02/2017 12:52

Oh no, thoughts with your Husky, it does not sound like she was coping well at all Flowers

Userone1 · 06/02/2017 13:09

Awww so sorry I've been watching for updates. All you can do is what you feel is best WineFlowers

Mummyoflittledragon · 06/02/2017 13:16

We have now had 2 dogs PTS it's the hardest thing ever. And I miss them both very much every day. The first one stopped eating and drinking so we accelerated the process. The last one went to the vet for investigations and a possible op. He was really poorly already. It was bad news and we chose to let him go. They were my babies really and are on the rainbow bridge waiting for me. We have another dog now. Dd insisted otherwise we wouldn't have got another. We were given the second dog by a friend, who pushed us to have him. And much as I don't regret having him, losing him was awful. Flowers

AnUtterIdiot · 06/02/2017 13:18

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CoolCarrie · 06/02/2017 13:51

I would do what your husband suggested, get the other eye out, and then you can see how she gets on. As you can tell from pp, many, many dogs can cope very well.

CoolCarrie · 06/02/2017 13:56

I am so very sorry, I didn't see your update. Take care of yourself.

ChazsBrilliantAttitude · 06/02/2017 13:56

CoolCarrie
You really really need to read the whole thread before posting.

Huskylover
Sorry to her how things worked out Flowers

ChazsBrilliantAttitude · 06/02/2017 13:57

X post with CoolCarrie

CoolCarrie · 06/02/2017 14:06

Sorry, I know I should not have posted before reading the update.
Our animals are like children to us as well, so really am very sorry

ChazsBrilliantAttitude · 06/02/2017 14:08

CoolCarrie
Don't worry. We've all done it and you clearly care Flowers

SallyGinnamon · 06/02/2017 19:09

So so sorry Huskylover. Flowers. You tried your best and it didn't work but you weren't to know. Huge hugs

Goodgriefisitginfizzoclock · 06/02/2017 19:27

So sorry to hear the news, very sad for you all ( also apologies for not arrears get the whole thread before commenting before just struck a cord I guess) x

kali110 · 06/02/2017 19:35

Op im sorry.
Neither of you should feel guilty!
You did nothing wrong. You gave her a chance. You would always have wondered what if. Flowers

Fortifiedwithvitaminsandiron · 06/02/2017 20:03

I am so sorry to read your latest update OP and my heart goes out to you - sending huge hugs xxxxxxxx

UnbornMortificado · 06/02/2017 20:04

I'm so sorry Husky Flowers

Chloe1984 · 06/02/2017 20:25

You did the right thing OP, both in trying it out then saying goodbye, don't beat yourself up about any decisions made. You'll see each other again one day Xx

harderandharder2breathe · 06/02/2017 21:14

I'm so sorry OP Flowers

At least you know that you definitely did the right thing PTS. You know that she couldn't cope without her sight and she was miserable. If you hadn't had the op you would've always wondered if maybe she would've been ok. I know that's no comfort right now though

Be kind to yourself Cake

AverysillyoldHector · 06/02/2017 22:25

So sorry to read you latest update Sad

Please dont beat yourselves up about that second operation. Would you mind if I share something that our lovely vet said which might help you get over the guilt?

Our girl had surgery for cancer, but after about 9 months the cancer returned. The specialist said to me that he could operate again and give her some more good quality life. We agreed, she had the second operation and within days, her cancer became really aggressive and we had to have her put to sleep at our local practice. I told our vet how guilty I felt for putting her through that second operation only for this to be the outcome. 'Dont ever feel guilty' he said, 'you had the surgery for all the right reasons and if you hadn't have given her that chance, we would still be here doing this and you would forever have felt guilty for not giving her a second chance with surgery'. I hope that brings you a tiny bit of comfort.

Run free, beautiful girl.

LeopardPrintSocks1 · 07/02/2017 09:53

So sorry Flowers

LaGattaNera · 07/02/2017 10:00

So very sorry for your loss x

SpackenDeDoich · 07/02/2017 10:06

Huskylover1 you gave her a wonderful life and she felt loved. That is something amazing. I think and truely believe you did exactly the right thing Flowers

3luckystars · 07/02/2017 10:23

I'm sorry. You made the right decision at the time, you had to give her a chance. That really hard, I hope you are alright x

Huskylover1 · 07/02/2017 23:38

Thank you all, I am crying reading this, it's so shit! Me and husband have managed to eat today, so thats something. Oh the grief tho. I did an Aldi shop today ...oh look, sardines for the dog...oh no....oh look cheese for the dog....oh no....YOU DON'T HAVE A DOG ANY MORE.

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