This is my list of normal meals, only including stuff that at least 2/3 of us will eat. It's taken from my winter meal plan, I probably do add some other stuff in in summer.
Totally lazy/frozen:
Frozen pizza
Chicken nuggets/fish fingers and chips
Burger and chips
Frozen fish and chips
Instant noodles
Meatballs with sauce
Pasta with jar sauce
Baked beans on toast
(DS doesn't like chips so has froz. mixed veg with his)
Jar sauces etc with some prep:
Chicken curry
Mushroom curry
Sweet and sour chicken (Uncle Ben's)
"Home made" pizza (ready made dough + sauce)
From scratch:
Spaghetti bolognese
Chili con carne
Stir fry with noodles
Egg fried rice
Some combo of meat + veg + carb e.g. chicken with peppers and rice (Not v often because this requires imagination...)
Chinese chicken in slow cooker
Stew in slow cooker (sometimes use packet mix)
Sometimes make a pasta with a cream or tomato sauce from scratch but DS and DH prefer the jar stuff. Plus, imagination problem again.
The long ones, just for the occasional weekend:
Toad in the hole
Pie (with ready made pastry)
Shepherd's pie
Roast dinner
I suppose that's quite a balance actually. The issue is DH is convinced he can't cook so he'll only attempt things from the first category with the occasional foray into a stew. I did convince him to attempt the sweet and sour chicken though, that wasn't very difficult, though he did serve it with chips instead of rice. So we end up eating more out of the first category. At the moment DS needs quick dinners and they mostly fall under the first type and DH is home before me 3x a week so I need to make sure that what's planned is something he can cook and then I don't feel like doing the whole cooking thing every night.
The thing with the frozen food is it's easy - everyone has their own portion so you can pick out what you fancy and it doesn't take any input at all, just throw it in the oven and then come back to it when it's done and that's it. With the actual recipe stuff, you've got to plan it, work out what goes in it, hope the shop has it (if the shop runs out of pizzas, which it never does, you can just buy more fish fingers instead - but there's frequently no chicken or none of the specific veg you want or the thing you want is more expensive this week) and then you have to be in the mood to cook it before it goes mouldy, whereas if you leave your pizza in the freezer a few more days, it's fine. Frequently I get home and feel too tired to put effort into cooking stuff and then cleaning it up and it's much easier to pick something out of the freezer even if it doesn't taste as good...
I know it's a terrible habit but if you get used to the ease of something it starts to feel difficult to do the other thing. Especially when it's only ever me who does it. It gets you down. And I like cooking
I just stop liking things when I feel like I have to do them.