My friend has entered into a new relationship and is blissfully happy and I am thrilled that she has found love.
So far, I have shared in her happiness and said that I am really made up for her.
At the back of my mind however, I feel slightly disingenuous as aspects of the relationship have all the hallmarks of a possible scam. The man is over thirty years younger than her and they met when he was on holiday in the UK (he normally resides in Morroco). He had proposed marriage within a few weeks after they first met, which seems a bit quick by most people's standards. She has now been over to visit him in Morocco a few times but has never been introduced to his family, who know nothing about her. He also describes himself as "Single" on Facebook, which I think is a bit worrying.
She is now going through the legal processes to bring him over to the UK and they hope to marry soon, either here or in Morrocco.
Her family and some of her other friends have been really critical and said that the man is just using her to get to the UK/gain access to her money.
I have said nothing about any worries I might have, and just said how pleased I am for her.
Should I be more honest? I feel that it is up to her who she wants to be with as she is more than capable of making her own decisions. On the other hand, I feel that if it did all go horribly wrong, I have "encouraged her". I feel especially worried for her children in the event it is a scam as I imagine she would stand to lose half her money.
WWYD?