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Or is this PE teacher unreasonable about periods

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BigSandyBalls2015 · 26/01/2017 21:32

DD(15) is doing GCSE PE. Part of this involves 'personal survival' which takes place in local swimming pool.

The school obv need to book this, can't just turn up, but DD queried what would happen if some of the girls had their period at the time. PE teacher (female) replied that they'd obviously have to use a tampon, they can't miss it, can't arrange another day. A few girls told her they didn't use/get on with tampons and she got annoyed saying they'd have to get on with it on the day as no other option.

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BlankTVscreen · 27/01/2017 18:47

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Gileswithachainsaw · 27/01/2017 18:48

Exactly better It's pretty simple really.how thick do these people have to be.

meditrina · 27/01/2017 18:49

"What happens if someone is sick and genuinely can't do it on the allotted day? Do they just fail? Or are alternative arrangements made?"

The school applies to the exam board for special consideration. It's quite a well-trodden path

Trifleorbust · 27/01/2017 18:52

2 sessions 2 weeks apart is simply not that difficult unless you want it to be

What does that mean? What are you expecting the school to do?

And no 'reasonable adjustment' is required as sex isn't a disability.

UnmentionedElephantDildo · 27/01/2017 18:53

"2 sessions 2 weeks apart is simply not that difficult unless you want it to be"

Have you ever actually timetabled GCSEs?

Bettersleepoutdoors · 27/01/2017 19:01

I really dont give a flying fuck that periods are not a "disability"

And i have scheduled far more complex arrangements than a couple of swimming tests.

It is not reasonable to manage girls out of a sporting or educational activity by not considering their biological needs.

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Trifleorbust · 27/01/2017 19:04

Bettersleepoutdoors: It is totally unreasonable to be rescheduling lessons around 30 girls' periods. Nothing reasonable about it.

Bettersleepoutdoors · 27/01/2017 19:04

Well quite blank

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Bettersleepoutdoors · 27/01/2017 19:07

why is it not reasonable to make plans that that consider half the pupil population?

TaraCarter · 27/01/2017 19:08

Niskayuna and others with similarly heavy periods.

It wouldn't help with swimming, but for daily life, have you come across shethinx underwear? They're briefs with integral absorbency that are supposed to be as absorbent as wearing normal briefs and a pad/tampon. If they work well for women with light/medium flow, I wonder if they might work well with pads/tampons to minimise leaks through to your clothes.

Another option in Diary Doll underwear, which is supposed to be leak-proof underwear.

Bettersleepoutdoors · 27/01/2017 19:09

It is totally unreasonable to force girls to push foreign objects into their vaginas with the threat that if they dont they will miss out on education if they do not.

Trifleorbust · 27/01/2017 19:11

BlankTVscreen: I have missed that - what is it? If the solution is perfectly sensible then I'm all for it. If it isn't, then the fact that excluding the girls is sexist isn't an absolute argument - the reasonableness of any remedy and the seriousness of the impact on the girls of not having recourse to that remedy must be considered.

MustBeLoopy390 · 27/01/2017 19:12

TaraCarter I'll have to look into those, thank you :) sick of having a separate shark week wardrobe.

Trifleorbust · 27/01/2017 19:12

Bettersleepoutdoors: They won't miss out on their education. PE is optional at GCSE. They can choose another option. Unfortunate, yes, but if there isn't a reasonable alternative then it's tough.

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Bettersleepoutdoors · 27/01/2017 19:13

OMFG

Trifleorbust · 27/01/2017 19:18

BlankTVscreen: Unless you have experience of organising secondary school timetables, you have NO IDEA what you are on about here. They are mindboggling difficult to organise. Unless you have experience of this your opinion on how reasonable your 'solution' (which isn't a solution - it's more of an assertion that a solution is easy to come by) might be isn't worth the cyberspace it's written on.

Bettersleepoutdoors · 27/01/2017 19:19

Well clearly these easily boggled individuals are incompetent and ignorant.

Trifleorbust · 27/01/2017 19:22

Bettersleepoutdoors: Unless you have been in a secondary school timetabling meeting (I have) you aren't qualified to comment. What you think is is probably like to do it is irrelevant because you have no idea.

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Trifleorbust · 27/01/2017 19:27

BlankTVscreen: Honestly, given a reasonable adjustment I would be all in favour - why the hell not? I just have enough experience to know that the 'reasonable adjustment' proposed by someone without the same experience often isn't reasonable at all, it's impossible.

bunnylove99 · 27/01/2017 19:28

The PE teacher has probably said the right thing, thinking through the consequences. If they had said 'ok don't do swimming if you have your period' that would give the green light for loads of girls to dodge a week. This way, those who truly dont/can't use tampons can have parents write a note and they will be sure to get excused. The rest that aren't bothered enough to make a fuss will just get on with it, as we all do with all sorts of things at that time of the month.

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