I'm curious at the assumption that because we are voting o it Brexit will now be a 'soft' Brexit. Surely all the government can guarantee at this stage is to negotiate for a particular set of outcomes, they can in no way guarantee it, as until we have initiated article 50 then serious negotiation with the rest of Europe can't get underway.
I would be very very surprised if the vote in parliament ends up going against initiating article 50. I'm not saying it won't, I'm just saying that to do so would be a massive risk.
Yes mumsnet was mostly remain, but the majority of the people who voted wanted to leave. Just because a lot of the people don't like it doesn't mean we shouldn't proceed. You just disenfranchise over half the population and something I think every politician will be aware, and possibly wary, of.