Been at work all day. DH been home all day. We have an 8 month old puppy.
When I got in I asked DH if he minded me going on computer for a bit to chill out after work (it's tucked away in dining room), he said that was fine and he'd look after dog. hf hour later I go to get myself a drink and go into living room to see if DH wants one. No sign of him. Instead, tv etc is off and dog is alone destroying Sky remote.
Not a big deal but curious as to where DH has gone (especially as TV etc has been turned off, which is unusual) so I go to bottom of stairs and shout up:
"DH"?
He replies "yeah?"
I say "what you doing sweets?"
He replies "sooorrrryyyy .... "
😐
I say "eh? Just wondered what you're doing (as in are you coming back down at some point) as dog was chewing up sky remote ... "
He replies "oh no .... sorrreeeereyyy"
😡😯
So sensing the sarcasm and will to start an argument I walk away and take dog with me into dining room.
AIBU here or was the sarcasm totally unnecessary?? He said he was looking after the dog yet he'd left him alone, turned off TV etc and buggered off ... I simply asked him what he was doing.
I'm sick to death of his attitude towards me. Snapping, sarcasm, shitty attitude.
Since I've felt like I can't be arsed with him now so I've come to bed. He knows he's fucked up as he's indirectly tried to creep by ordering my favourite takeaway but I'm sick to death of being spoken to like shit. I don't need this shit and I'm becoming less and less tolerant of it as time goes on.