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Partner thinks I should get a taxi to this interview. AIBU to ignore him

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user1484223149 · 12/01/2017 12:14

have a job interview a 50 minute drive away. I get really nervous for job interviews so usually just take the easy option and just get a taxi instead of messing around with walking and trains or if my partner can take me he does. Normally he asks to take time off as we have very little money with us both being students.

I recently got a job interview for a social worker job and it will be £70 in a taxi! Partner can't take me and I can't drive. The other option is to walk a 10 minute walk to my local train station. And take two 30 minute trains and then from the last train station it's a 5 minute walk to the building my interview is at.

Normally I get a taxi but seeing as there's not much walking involved I thought I could go by train.

My problem is when I walk and I'm nervous I sweat. Even just a little walking increases my body temperature. But I will have a 1 hour train journey to cool down with and it's absolutely freezing at the moment.

I was thinking of straightening and tying my hair back and then putting my make up on on the train. And brushing my hair just before getting to the venue. I have fine straight hair. If I get fully ready before I leave my make up might melt a little.

I have beautiful black heels for the interview but would wear foldable dolly shoes and just pop them on before getting to the venue. There's a bus stop next to it.

Does this seem too much hard work?

Our combined income is £13,000 a year for all bills. We also have a toddler. It just seems such a waste paying so much when I can go by train.

I'm also not quite as nervous for this job interview. It's with one manager and a service user so seems less daunting

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Letseatgrandma · 13/01/2017 14:50

the interviewers were male which helped! Lol.

I don't get that-why does that help?!

Well done though-sounds like you're pleased with how you did :)

user1484223149 · 13/01/2017 15:35

I just think men are nicer to me! I don't know why.

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Nizuc · 13/01/2017 16:11

Any news?

user1484223149 · 13/01/2017 18:07

I find out on Tuesday how I did. That's the only thing I'm worried about. I get the feeling if they were really impressed they would have given me an earlier date. They said they had finished interviews today and they would spend money making their decision and they will let me know Tuesday morning

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user1484223149 · 13/01/2017 18:09

But it did go really well. I got very positive body language and they said good answer a lot and she wrote 'good example' on her notes a few times. So I have my fingers crossed

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OutDamnedWind · 13/01/2017 18:34

Ooh good luck! Sounds like whatever happens you were on top form! And Tues is quite early compared to where I work.

user1484223149 · 13/01/2017 21:24

When I've been successful normally I get told that day. So Tuesday suggests they're considering their options. He did compliment how organised I was and when I asked if there was anything I'd forgotten or needed to reiterate he said no definitely not you've covered everything. I'm hoping that's a good sign.

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ParadiseCity · 14/01/2017 09:24

Fingers crossed for you!

user1484493755 · 17/01/2017 11:18

Thanks everyone. The time is going by so slowly!!!

IggyPopsicle · 17/01/2017 11:47

Good luck OP, I hope you get good news today Smile

I just wanted to say, I also sweat in situations like you have described. If I go for an interview or an appointment, I have to plan my clothing and travel arrangements around it too. Its like a military operation sometimes.

Sure For Men 48hr Antibacterial deodorant is the only thing that works for my underarms. I still haven't worked out how to keep a dry face, though! Blush

user1484493755 · 19/01/2017 13:56

I got the job 😀

ILostItInTheEarlyNineties · 19/01/2017 14:05

Congratulations! That's brilliant news. Smile

OutDamnedWind · 19/01/2017 19:35

Hooray! Massive congratulations, and well done you! Flowers

northernmonkey1010 · 19/01/2017 20:22

How would you get there when you get the job?

TheProblemOfSusan · 19/01/2017 20:32

Wow, well done! Job and you can use some of the £70 you didn't spend on a meal or something to celebrate. excellent work!

NameChange30 · 19/01/2017 20:38

Woohoo, congratulations! Grin

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