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Is mumsnet International?

159 replies

Newtothisshiz · 11/01/2017 20:53

Is it just brits using this or people from all over?

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imip · 12/01/2017 16:17

Yes, vying what a fascinating insight into your life. Thank-you!

It shows how different our lives can be, but obvious similarities in using the same website!

Strokethefurrywall · 12/01/2017 18:58

Pallisers couldn't agree more.

I'm a Brit living in a very US-culturally influenced Caribbean island (despite being a British Overseas Territory), and I get really pissed off reading the inevitable Halloween and Baby Shower (Urgh, disgraceful American import ) bashing threads.
Generally I drop in, call them all bigoted twats and then leave again. So much snobbery surrounding all things American. Much like the baby name thread which is always amusing...

OP: "What do you think of the name Madison/Casey/Mackenzie?"
Reader: "They sound a bit American... are you American?"

The weirdest thing is, is that most of those commenting even realise they're doing it!

Waltermittythesequel · 12/01/2017 19:06

Irish in Ireland. Worried about The Donald.

Vying your life is fascinating to me. Thanks for sharing.

Costacoffeeplease · 12/01/2017 19:08

I have also just got my Irish citizenship, just in case, post brexitSmile

emmyhNL · 12/01/2017 19:12

Brit living in Holland waves I'm also worried about Trump

BeachyKeen · 12/01/2017 19:15

Canadian, living in Canada, found MN about 12 years ago, looking for info on aspergers

ineedmorelemonpledge · 12/01/2017 19:16

Another Brit living in Toblerone Country. I know a few more here too, online and personally.

There used to be quite a gaggle of Deutschland beauties here too. But I barely look at the living overseas section these days.

Foldedtshirt · 12/01/2017 19:17

Wow vying why a great insight into your life. Thank you.
Have you ever lived in the UK? What do you make of the parking and school gate threads!?

Idefix · 12/01/2017 19:19

Brit in Deutschland and very worried about Trump.

fakenamefornow · 12/01/2017 19:24

vying

I have a million questions I'd love to ask you!

I remember a thread ages ago about the Falkland Islands, a couple of islanders came on and explained about there lives, it was fascinating. Another thread featured a Jehovah Witness who was happy to answer loads of stupid questions.

MizzEmma · 12/01/2017 19:27

British living in the USA.

In my short time here I've found that the vast majority of stereotypes about Americans are either inaccurate or at least not universally applicable to all Americans. There are vast cultural differences between each state.

However New I haven't identified particularly different core values. Perhaps you would like to explain what you mean by that?

bummymummy77 · 12/01/2017 19:28

Brit in the US too.

Some peoples's attitudes towards the States on here make me really sad.

Especially as pretty much all Americans think the UK is really cool. Dh has had some pretty nasty comments levelled at him when in the UK and it makes me quite ashamed if I'm honest.

LiefieLiefie · 12/01/2017 19:29

Brit in SA. Having to head back to the UK soon and really not wanting to leave here.

bummymummy77 · 12/01/2017 19:30

And pretty much everyone's 'core values' that I know here are fantastic. Kind, giving, community minded, positive- you can do anything you set your mind to attitudes.

And people do things for themselves. Fix things themselves, grow things themselves, see, bake, build. Pretty good core values.

Out2pasture · 12/01/2017 19:31

Canadian living in Canada with daughter in London, joined MN to understand the education system.

AcrossthePond55 · 12/01/2017 19:38

US West Coast, represent!!!

I really love the diversity of MN. I've learnt a lot from you lot. There are so many different ways of seeing life and solving life's problems and it's always good to consider another point of view.

Dutch1e · 12/01/2017 19:53

Dual Kiwi-Aussie living in the Netherlands.

More worried about Pence after Trump is impeached/quits/dies

SingaSong12 · 12/01/2017 20:10

I'm a Brit in England. I admit to assuming too much that others are in England (not thinking the poster may be in Scotland).

I have a number of American relatives. mN can definitely stereotype- my relatives were all shocked about the Trump election. They are all worried about it. I am as well. (Maybe I stereotype others as well though!)

Rainbunny · 12/01/2017 20:17

I'm British but live in the USA.

Vyingforloc · 13/01/2017 08:35

Newtothis Sorry to hijack your thread.

Essential Exactly that, mostly chiefs shop in Jhb. Ordinary people still shop in Bloemfontein.

Mango and we are a generally peaceful nation. There was an attempted coup but the people refused to be used by self-serving politicians.

Walter Wink

Fold I studied for post-graduate in the UK and I lived in my own world of foreign students. I would never have thought anyone can think to complain about something as trivial(at least to me) as parking. I suppose its luxury of being in a way privileged.
I was surprised that parents walk children to schools, I thought it is indulgent and the idea of school gate mums is weird, how much time is there between school class starting and mums dispersing? Do you wait outside gate? Do you have to register your child every time you drop them off? How does it work? It's very strange to me, as children here leave home at 6.45am and you join them as they pass your home and form a group to walk to school. A parent joining them would be viewed as a meddling parent and there many meddling parents, just in different ways.

Another thing, we do not have the concept of play-dates. Children take it upon themselves to form friendships - if a parent is unhappy about the friend, when the disliked child knocks on your door and asks for your child to come outside to play, you just say she/he is sleeping until they get the message.
Has it always been that parents arrange play-dates?

Oh, I forgot to tell you, in summer school starts at 7.15am to 1.45pm with 2 breaks. Because we don't have air conditioners in schools, in summer children are taught outside where there is a sun tree shade.
Our winters are quiet cold, anything from a minimum of -1 degree Celsius is not uncommon.

Another thing, most children do not have toys, they play physical games and often group games such as skipping rope in turns, climbing trees, water in plastic thrown at each other in the river type of games. If a parent can afford to buy a toy, we tend to buy toys they can share with their friends such as a ball because then other children will not play with your child if they have to watch him riding his bike unless they take turns riding it.

I know I am long winded but...

Vyingforloc · 13/01/2017 08:37

If you've bought a lot of groceries, before you get to your taxi(people-carrier-type) stop, you call your house for anyone to come with a wheel-barrow to put groceries in and they push it home.

Foldedtshirt · 13/01/2017 08:46

Thank you vying!
DD has spent time in a similar setting (in a rondeval sp?) and describes the childhood as idyllic. Ref playmates and organisation, it's mainly thus (parents organising) some communities, estates, cul de sacs, have children knocking each other up, and their mums saying the same to unwanted visitors. Otherwise it's organised, mainly theough a fear or traffic.

Vyingforloc · 13/01/2017 08:51

Fake You can ask, I am listening

LostInTheColonies · 13/01/2017 08:52

Brit in NZ - looks like there are a few of us Smile
As well as great parenting discussions, MN is a wonderful source of much-missed British humour & irreverence.

(and I'm also worried about Trump - have decided his ideal partner would surely be Mariah Carey; similar egos?)

Newyearnewbrain · 13/01/2017 08:53

Hello from a muggy Singapore