Im not saying let him come back. besides he is still dds dad and I wont refuse contact though it will be supervised.
If you aren't going to ask him to come back you've got no reason to check on him, have you? Even if he was cold and starving, you wouldn't be able to offer him a bed back at yours.
He has a place to live, whether it's cold or not. He is luckier than most people who split from their partners. Please, please, please stop being in thrall to this appalling man. You are basically looking for an excuse to justify contacting a man who has been abusive not just to you, but to your daughter. You honestly sound like you're almost addicted to him - everyone is telling you not to contact him and you just keep coming back with 'But...' every time and making excuses for his behaviour or blaming his family instead of him. Please wake up and see this man for what he is: he doesn't deserve your time, let alone your help. He's not helpless, he is lazy and manipulative. If he wants to eat cold beans, that's fine. Beans are pretty nutritious, actually. It won't do him any harm at all.
I have been in an abusive relationship myself, and I know that is very tough trying to end things fully. I left my ex once and made the mistake of thinking 'I'll just check if he's OK...' and of course, that was exactly what he wanted and it gave him the chance to spin me a self-pitying yarn ... and a couple of months later I was back where I started and the cycle of abuse started again. Don't make the mistake I did.
Contact with your daughter isn't relevant this evening. If he has supervised contact in future, that's fine, but it doesn't mean you have to phone him and check on his welfare - not tonight and not ever. He is his own person and you are yours. You need to stop seeing his welfare as your problem.