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AIBU?

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Dh to naked DD

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FutureMrsRanj · 27/12/2016 16:03

I'm sure IABU because I have a post Christmas grump on, but ever hopeful someone might agree. DD (3) for reasons known only to herself has taken her trousers and knickers off for the millionth time since arriving home after a pub lunch. We woukd obviously prefer she kept at least her knickers on and encouraged her, as usual, to pop something back on. My problem is dh has taken to telling her not to take her clothes off because 'it makes him shy'. Something about this doesn't sit right with me as I feel she should cover her modesty for her, not other people but I can't seem to articulate my feelings without sounding like I just want to have a row with him. So AIBU and nit picking because it really doesn't matter as long as she understands she should keep her clothes on or do others feel the same, and if so can you help me explain myself?

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FutureMrsRanj · 27/12/2016 18:55

Thank you all for your replies, fizzy I'll likely follow your advice. I don't have a huge problem with the naked but it definitely needs boundaries, entirely my fault as I've been known to laugh while desperately trying to redress her in public. Some really interesting replies which explain far better why I find it odd phrasing, and to those who suggested I'm making a bit of a mountain out of a molehill, you're absolutely right which is why I came here to get perspective and see how others felt about it

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