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OMG lost as to what to do

249 replies

Cynthiathequeen · 24/12/2016 00:51

Name changed. 20odd year old DC has just hosted a pre party at ours. After their v noisy departure went into the room they had been in to check for forgotten candles etc. Found a hand written note on headed note paper from one of this country's most august body's. It is an addendum note and asks the recipient to send the note writer their "term time address" plus more, but never stepping over a line.
I have no idea of sender or recipient, but they all went to a school which arranges many work placements in said body.my DC has been one of them. A number of the school alumni have ended up working there as a career
All individuals are 21 plus but I am at a loss. Unhappy the note could be pressure on someone not yet properly mature. i accept I probably cannot intervene, don't think it is my own DC, so just your thoughts please?

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BadKnee · 24/12/2016 01:11

I was thinking MI5 or Houses of Parliament for august body! But really who knows. And if everyone os over twenty what is the problem??

RegentsParkWolf · 24/12/2016 01:12

If their all over 21 why would they have a term time address? Add me to the confused list.

PaulAnkaTheDog · 24/12/2016 01:13

So toured concerned about a 20 odd year old communicating with another adult? Confused

Manumission · 24/12/2016 01:13

Gosh I must have a poor view of the HoP. " " August" doesn't spring to mind 😄

PaulAnkaTheDog · 24/12/2016 01:13

*you're not toured

HemanOrSheRa · 24/12/2016 01:13

Oh. An August Body!!!!! Yep. My sister is a Leo and a wonderful woman. There. I've sorted that

Cynthiathequeen · 24/12/2016 01:13

Tarty yes. Everyone sorry for being so oblique. Just trying not to out anyone. Thank you for your replies.

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Janey50 · 24/12/2016 01:14

What exactly are you asking OP?

Twogoats · 24/12/2016 01:14

Maybe your dc is trying to hire a good translator? He needs one...

Trifleorbust · 24/12/2016 01:15

OMG...

Yep, not a clue why this would concern you.

Manumission · 24/12/2016 01:15

This isn't one of those threads that's really a book/play/film is it?

I fucking HATE impromptu parlour games Angry

Manumission · 24/12/2016 01:16

Heman Grin

Teapotqueenie · 24/12/2016 01:17

Isnt the "mutual friend" just that? I think it is unlikely to be a reference to Dickens! and is what we used to call our dealerBlush

Teapotqueenie · 24/12/2016 01:17

Strikeout fail!

haveacupoftea · 24/12/2016 01:18

This reminds me of the lotto ad. Nicer problems to have.

Manumission · 24/12/2016 01:18

I'm glad you said that teapot. I was deepening my frown lines trying to catch the hidden message Smile

Cynthiathequeen · 24/12/2016 01:19

Genuine thread. Sorry I haven't been able to get the story over but thank you for your replies. My concern is about " letters being the most discrete form of communication".
Will go away to ponder why seeing it has disturrebed me so much. Just a gut feeling I guess.

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Tartyflette · 24/12/2016 01:19

Or.....The Palace?
It could be that the sender, whoever s/he is, may be of a similar-ish age, or at least within an appropriate age range, to the recipient (who may still be at Uni, hence term time address request?). Just one possible scenario.

Manumission · 24/12/2016 01:19

Well isn't the likely explanation an affair?

britbat23 · 24/12/2016 01:20

Yawn. If you're not going to name the MP, go home.

Teapotqueenie · 24/12/2016 01:20

Ok, so, for example if this was a famed ballet, this is the equivalent of finding a note from an unnamed bigwig there asking for the alternative address, "plus a picture of your stiffest tutu" etc?

Am i warm?

Cynthiathequeen · 24/12/2016 01:20

Last message. Never knew about our mutual friend having that meaning. I could well have been massively misinterpreting this. Thank you all

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Tartyflette · 24/12/2016 01:22

Is it really spelled 'discrete'?
That's not the same as 'discreet.'
I would expect someone who writes letters on notepaper 'from one of the country's most august bodies' to know the difference.

Teapotqueenie · 24/12/2016 01:22

Letters are the most discreet if you dont have access to digital communication. Or are a hipster.

Teapotqueenie · 24/12/2016 01:23

Well spotted Tarty.Star