I have 2 adult dds& an 8 yr old dd.
Eldest Dd has 2kids of her own married.
It's an on going thing for a while now but she never seems to want to spend any time with myself& her little sister.there's always an excuse of some kind BUT she's always out with the niece of my best friend(who theres ongoing issues with to do with manipulation)
Last nite was my dds carol concert& I invited my eldest to come with the kids to watch her with us.she said I will try then when I txt her an hr before we were due to leave to ask if shes coming or not she said no prob not.so I asked why she said cuz my tooth hurts(she's bin having treatment fir while now) both kids were tired playing up etc.I was disappointed tho I had a feeling she wouldn't come but just said ok that's a shame but cu soon.left it at that.
Then tonite I go on social.media& there's a post on there from best friends niece saying lovely carol service tonite my girls did great thanks to ppl for coming& lo& behold my eldest is one of them tagged in it!she also commented on it saying how lovely it was& how well the girls did! She has 11 yr old girls.
I'm seething! Again! I really wanna vent at her bout it but don't feel I can as it's so bloody close to Christmas plus it's also one of my eldests birthday very soon so I don't wanna rock the boat.
Aibu?
It just pisses me rite off every time this happens as my youngest is never included in anything.yet they're always going everywhere with these others!
She's had loads of help from us in the past with money& different things.if we are going anywhere or doing anything we always think to include my gd but it NEVER happens the other way round!
so churned up inside! So need to vent on here!