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He didn't pick me up

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Brokenhobit · 13/12/2016 20:15

Was out having drinks arranged to finish around 7.30 .partner said he would pick me up, I offered to go for dinner with him after but he said he would see how he felt he wasn't hungry. At 5.55 I text to say I was on my way to drinks but where having dinner. I could pick you up a meal to take home when you pick me up, he then got grumpy and said thanks for letting him no earlier. me and my friend hasn't realised how hungry we where. at 6.45 texted him about where to meet as I was finishing up early. there was no reply so I started to walk to his office which is across town he wasn't in. It was now around seven so I waited till 725 thinking i did say 7.30 I'm the early one. he then rings saying he's having dinner will meet me at home and that he texted me. I got no text until 7.16 I just hadn't seen it I got in a taxi to go home which I couldn't really afford he had promised he would pick up tonight as he knew I hadn't seen this friend for months and really wanted to see her dinner was taste card so buy one get one free and I had tap water I also rang him a few times am I in the wrong

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TheCompanyOfCats · 14/12/2016 10:09

Gabs it's got to be the same person given the writing style and problem.

He's an arse OP.

GabsAlot · 14/12/2016 11:25

yes true but same problem not taking advice what do they want us to say

AnchorDownDeepBreath · 14/12/2016 11:46

Is this the same guy that didn't come to the gig? You're always changing the plans to his detriment. He reacts like this. Nothing will change if you both keep following the same patterns.

MilkTwoSugarsThanks · 14/12/2016 11:52

If it is the same OP it sounds like she values time with her friends more than her DP and is happy to mess her DP around to facilitate that.

Pickanameanyoldname · 14/12/2016 11:52

Yeah i think he's pretty much done with fitting in with you and your frequently changing plans.

LagunaBubbles · 14/12/2016 12:49

Why are you ignoring all the posters asking if you have posted a smilar story before? Confused

StillMaidOfStars · 14/12/2016 13:07

I said it last time, and again now...

He's just not that into you. He sulks, he refuses sex, he goes out with his mates (mixed sex) nights in a row and doesn't want you there.

Lose him. Six months you've properly been together! Don't waste your time.

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