Ive already posted in relationships but know I'll get more traffic here...
I've been with DH 10 years, I adore him just like I believe hope he adores me. We've had issues in the past regarding porn, I'm not dead against it per se but he's so secretive about it, uses it at least twice a week.
We have a relatively good sex life, we dtd at least once a week.
We met through work, I know through male colleagues that they'd been to lap dance bars before, he says completely innocent, mutual male colleagues have told me he has in the past payed for private dances although he denies this.
On Saturday he went on a works doo in a local city (we no longer work together). He rarely drinks and usually turns these things down, I was so pleased that he'd decided to go. We live in the sticks and there wasn't much way of him getting back so I offered to do the 2 hour round trip to get him. When I got there he was very charming, said he'd missed me, his friends were impressed I'd gone to pick him up etc. I said don't be silly, you'd do that for me.
Roll on tonight, (I've never felt the need to check up on him, I trust him implicitly) he asked me to check up on a parcel for our Dd, I couldn't reach the link so went into history. Saturday he looked up lap dancing bars in the city he was in and googled one particular place several times.
I'm not really sure why I'm posting, maybe just wondered wwyd?