DD has conjunctivitis and tonsilitis
DH has "man-flu" and reckons he's broken a rib from coughing
He didn't organise anything for my birthday
He didn't buy me a card
He didn't buy me a present
He started watching the DVD I borrowed from the library last night when he couldn't sleep
Although I said I wanted a takeaway, he went shopping yesterday and bought enough food to feed a small country and has already made dinner (not my choice)
I haven't slept properly for a week because I've been up every night with DD
I spent last night tending to DH - made a bed on the floor for him, hot water bottle, hot toddy etc. but he still thinks I'm being unsympathetic
I know people don't know AIBU threads but I'm feeling incredibly sorry for myself and ended up having a row with DH over the whole thing. I think he thinks I'm ungrateful but I really just wanted a card and maybe a little cheap thoughtful present.
this is the eighth year I've had a crap birthday (we've been together eight years!).
So seriously, am I being unreasonable?