I have shared custody of DEx's Bear but Bear's evil SM is teying to cut me out...

[MommaGee]

So DarlingEx and I have a shared Bear called Bear. He's the sweetest Bear - drinks tea, reads the telegraph. I get him for holidays as he misses me terribly and it's important Darling Ex and I get together to discuss his progress.
Now there's some other woman on the scene who is trying to convince everyone Bear is in love with her girl bear when we've accepted for a long time now Bear is gay. We love him and just want him to be happy. Apparently he and girl bear have a baby called Kevin but he's clearly someone else's baby as Bear likes boys not girls.
Aibu to send Bear back with Wilbur, the big grizzly bear, to whom he has promised his future years? And to send zircon the baby to a charity shop as punishment towards girl Bear?

I've just noticed the 'DarlingEx' in momma's OP . I might start using that whenever I have a (very likely) future rant on here about my DEx, just to see the responses...

And pay no heed to the naysayers; I've had a stressy old week (some of which could be attributed to DEx), and this has cheered me up no end.

I'd love to have seen the Report messages, though

Mwah haha me too!

Please stop there, they're having FUN and what's more, they don't even cry when we're mean to them!! What is the point of AIBU of we don't only discuss terribly serious things like MIL wanting to visit occasionally especially if we can't make people feel crap for their life choices!!

We were in hospital with our son until Thursday night so found the original thread whilst dealing with that and barely sleeping on the pull out bed besides his cot. Kept me very entertained

Sits down with pop corn with our bear. Can i share my favourite advert this year!! m.youtube.com/watch?v=KE6h531YaL4

london That is very sweet. I'll have to show Phyllis. I don't think Bear would like it, though - he's not one for sentiment. He only really watches porn and snuff movies.

He's the sweetest Bear - drinks tea, reads the telegraph.

You don't have a sm problem you have a bear problem. You may think he's a sweet gay bear who loves tea but it's all for show. He's hiding his excessive drinking, womanising and possible gambling addictions from you (I heard he goes to sports events a lot, the betting on them is suspected but unconfirmed). You need to work with bears other family to get him some support for his issues. Do it for the sake of the children!

TAAT. And not even funny

Clearly TAAT Livia because I won't have bear besmirching my Bears good name and I want to set the record straight for his and Grizzl's sake

nickname do you think he's living a double life trying to please all his families? Being everything we all want him to be instead of himself?

Perhaps the phrase about if you love them let them go is true...

Perhaps what's best for Bear isn't best for me, but as I love him as my own his needs supersede mine...

Perhaps this should be out last Christmas...

Perhaps I'll tell him I love him but this isn't working, he needs to be with Mrs Bear and Kevin. Perhaps he is the Daddy and Grizzl is just for show...

Perhaps now is the tine bear. We'll have one last Christmas and then I'll walk away.

Just love him for me and for goodness sake keep those bloody PJ's clean!!