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Is this sexist or am I being petty? (semi-lighthearted)

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lilyb84 · 02/12/2016 16:06

DH does this all the time. We see a male health professional - he's a "doctor" (including the awesome male midwife who delivered our ds). We see a female health professional - she's a "nurse", regardless of whether she's actually a doctor, dentist etc.

He's not sexist in any other way whatsoever, in fact is one of the least sexist men I know, but this really gets my goat. Am I being ridiculous or do I need to start some sort of Pavlovian shock therapy to get him to call people by their correct professional title so my blood pressure doesn't go through the roof?!

Incidentally he never actually does this to their face, only when talking about experiences afterwards to me/friends/family. I'm sure a female doctor (or any above examples) would put him bang to rights if he did Grin

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MollyHuaCha · 02/12/2016 19:46

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BarbarianMum · 02/12/2016 20:22

My dad is in his 80s, deaf and with the early stages of dementia. When he was in hospital last year he complained to me that he hadn't seen a doctor in days. This is because his doctor was youngish and female and therefore (clearly) a nurse. Hmm

pinkyredrose · 02/12/2016 23:17

Men that pride themselves on being 'super respectful' around women are often the most sexist.

Lorelei76 · 02/12/2016 23:25

Pinky, that's exactly what I think.

Kahli · 03/12/2016 02:14

My lovely sis is Chief Bio Medical Scientist.
Her husband refers to her as a Lab Tech.
Guys have problems with us doing well.

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