To not be invited to one thing

[Hobnobhobbit]

Partners been too 3 quiz nights claimed they where work things but he then mentioned a list of other people who went including a house mate of someone then a few drinks and now the past two nights he's been out drinking with a friend of his who I'm friendly with and a mutual girl who's a friend of both of there's I've been in town Christmas shopping don't drive so got the bus home but he finished work at the same time I left and didn't even think to ask if I wanted to come for New Years I'm doing a dinner party and he keeps saying he will ask his friends he hasn't and for my best friends birthday in January he's saying he might not come

Posted to soon dose it seem like he dosnt want me to meet his friends more or socialise with mine

You have a boyfriend problem (based on this and other threads). You've been together six months, IIRC? Get shot.

Run far away from this bloke.... the other things you have posted make me very wary of him

Everything else is perfect just this and the sex I know I need to leave but I don't want to and I know he loves but im all caught up in love and I really don't no what to do he's just moved in with me

Your probably not invited so he can hook up with someone else.

Ltb.

What's wrong with the sex?

You also need to learn to use full stops.

I'm severely dyslexic sorry about the full stops I know he's not hooking up with anyone else I use his laptop and answer his phone when he asks me to we hardly have sex

Herat OP has previously explained that she is dyslexic and has issues with understanding grammar.

Hobnobhobbit Everything else is NOT perfect. He's lazy around the house and expects you to clean up after him, he plays games about who is more tired, he isn't interested in sex, he gets the arse when you have minor changes to plans and fucks off to the pub, he clearly doesn't want to socialise with you.

He's always exhausted or has a migraine currently these are going as he's finally got glasses

He's not your partner, he's your boyfriend and a very selfish one at that.

You know you need to finish with him, so why waste time?

He won't change and you know it.

Doesn't sound perfect to me. You need to get rid of him.

What's the point of this relationship? It doesn't seem to be making you happy.

He sounds awful and selfish. You deserve better.

Find someone that makes you happy, don't settle for someone like him!

I'll repeat, you've been together six months - SIX MONTHS. He's not worth the investment of any more time.

It's officially six months but more like a year as for six months before these six months he was working away and I didn't want to commit although we both say it's been a year

Yo have been with him for 6 months only and yet he is making ZERO effort and acting like he is single. Get rid - you deserve far far better than this.

Get rid.

And his good points are???

Do you honestly want to be stuck with this man for the next 30 years?!

They are 2 major things, just end it!

Get rid.

I tutor children with dyslexia but this is for adults:

www.beatingdyslexia.com/correct-grammar.html

I do love him so much when where together and with my he's been there for me these past few months

Erm if he's like this so early into a relationship run! Seriously. It will only get worse and god forbid if you have kids it'll be a nightmare for you.