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To claim CSA but not let ex see DS?

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Frumpy1 · 23/11/2016 16:45

So I'm pregnant with my exes baby, we have now split & have agreed to no contact (not really agreed, it just ended really really badly)...due to his behaviour I was forced to contact the police who agreed that I should ensure no contact is made for mine & the baby's safety (ex was abusive).

However, they have also said that due to the situation, it may not be suitable for him to have contact or if he did for it to be supervised.

AIBU to go ahead & claim CSA when DS is born??

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SingaSong12 · 23/11/2016 22:40

Domestic violence and abuse - organisations which give information and advice:

www.citizensadvice.org.uk/relationships/gender-violence/domestic-violence-and-abuse-organisations-which-give-information-and-advice/

Also a look at the link below for details of organisations and steps you may be able to take. If you fear/experience any unwanted contact from your ex then you (through a solicitor) or the police may be able to take action to prevent and then enforce.

If you have experienced abuse then you may be entitled to legal aid for a solicitor to help you deal with any civil application (such as a non molestation order) or if your ex wants contact once the child is born.

www.citizensadvice.org.uk/relationships/gender-violence/domestic-violence-and-abuse/#h-options-available-to-people-affected-by-domestic-violence

Frumpy1 · 24/11/2016 08:20

After everything, I still love him....how sad do I sound??

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